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The Ukubulawa komntu owayesemva kweBritish oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala uGrace Millane kwaye ulingo oluphezulu olwalandelayo lwabangela inkxalabo enzulu, eqaqambisa indlela amabali abucala abasetyhini abanokusetyenziswa ngokuchasene nabo njengenxalenye yokuzikhusela.

Ngorhatya lweminyaka yakhe yokuzalwa engama-22, uMillane - owayepakisha izinto eNew York - waya kumhla kunye nendoda awadibana nayo eTinder. Emva kobusuku ngaphandle, bobabini babuyela ekhayeni lakhe apho bambamba khona ukuba afe esabelana ngesondo. Nangona igqwetha lagweba ityala elinetyala kwinyanga ephelileyo, ityala ngokwalo lavuselela ingqumbo kwindlela yobomi bokwabelana ngesondo buka-Nobuhle njengobungqina obuchasene naye. Inxaxheba yakhe yangaphambili kwi-BDSM kunye nokusetyenziswa kwe-fetish ukuthandana nee-Whiplr zazisetyenziswa njengobungqina bokuba wayezonwabela ezinye iindlela zokuziphatha, kuthetha ukuba le yayiyimeko 'yemidlalo yezesondo ihambe gwenxa'. Omnye wabalingane bakhe bangaphambili wabizwa kwisikhundla sokuzikhusela ukuze angqine ukuba u -Grace uzibandakanya ekuceleni ukwanelisa isini.

Kwilizwe lonke lase-UK kule minyaka ilishumi idlulileyo, bekukho i Iipesenti ezingama-90 ukunyuka 'kwezesondo', kwaye kule minyaka mihlanu idlulileyo ibe yimpumelelo phantse kwisiqingatha samatyala. Ukothuswe yile meko ivelayo, uFiona McKenzie oyisithethi Asinakho ukuyivuma le ntoIqela lephulo elisebenzayo 'lokwabelana ngesondo' okanye okanye okubizwa njaloImithunzi engama-50'- ukhuselo olukhutshiweyo kwiinkundla zaseBritane. Kunye nelungu lePalamente yabasebenzi uHarriet Harman, iqela lizama ukongeza igatya UMthetho oYilwayo wokuSetyenziswa gwenxa ekhaya Oko kuyakwenza ukuba kungabikho mthethweni kwindoda ebulele umntu wasetyhini ukuba athi ayivume ngobundlobongela obuzise ukufa kwakhe. Abaqulunqi baphembelela ukuba ukuvuma imidlalo ethile yesini akufani nokuvuma ukubulawa, njengoko kuboniswe kwityala likaMgidi. Ukuzikhusela 'ngokwesini esirhabaxa' kukwenza baphoxise amaxhoba okuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo ukuba beze ngaphambili, kuba besoyikela ukuba ubomi babo bezesondo buya kusetyenziselwa ukuhlazisa okanye ukubabeka ityala - into esele ixhaphake kakhulu kwinkqubo yenkundla.

“Rhoqo, awuzukufumana nto ngomntu osweleke ngaphaya kwegama lakhe nezi zityholo zinamandla” - uFiona McKenzie, Asinakuvuma kweli phulo

"Oku kubonakala ngathi lulwaphulo-mthetho lwesintu ngokupheleleyo kwabasetyhini olubonakala lungahambelani kwaphela kubundlobongela obenziwa kwabasetyhini," utshilo uMcKenzie. Kodwa ngenxa yesizathu esithile kwinkqubo yezobulungisa kulwaphulo-mthetho, kwaye ukuya kuthi ga kumaphephandaba, xa kukho ingxelo, abantu ababhinqileyo bathe 'ewe, ndifuna ukwenzakala. Ndifuna ukulaliswa esibhedlele ngobomi bam bezesondo. "

“Rhoqo, awuzukufumana nto ngomntu osweleke ngaphaya kwegama lakhe nezi zityholo zityhafisayo ukuba avumile kuzo zonke iintlobo zesondo phambi kokuba asweleke,” uqhubeke watsho uMcKenzie. "Ukuba sibuyele emva nge-90s kunye ne-2000s, amagama abantu basasazwa kumaphephandaba phantsi kwezihloko 'kinky sex mum', 'umfundi wekholeji yeBDSM'.

Ukujongana nemibuzo ejikeleze indlela enqamlezileyo yokuhlangana ngokwesondo kunye nobundlobongela kuye kwaba ngumcimbi ongxamisekileyo, hayi kuba ubungqina bubonisa ukuba iyabulala ngakumbi kwabasetyhini, kodwa ngenxa yokuba ibonisa ukudideka ngokubanzi malunga nendlela abantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-40 abalala ngayo ngesondo.

Eso sondo sikhohlakeleyo siye sathandwa kwiminyaka yakutshanje siza njengeendaba kuye, kwaye ke ezobupolitika bezesondo ezibangela ukwanda kwabantu abancinci azaziwa. Isifundo esenziwe ngu I-Savanta ComRes ye BBC Radio 5 kwiveki ephelileyo kudize ukuba iipesenti ezingama-38 zabasetyhini abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-40 abanamava “abangafunekiyo” okubetha, ukuqhula, okanye ukugembula ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo. Iipesenti ezingama-42 zala mabhinqa athi aziva enyanzelekile okanye anyanzelekile. Ukuqheleka kwezenzo zobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo kusoloko kugxekwa ekukhuselekeni kwe-hardcore ye-porn phakathi kwabafana abancinci. Kodwa, ngokukaMary Sharpe we Umvuzo weZiseko -Umntu oxhasa uthando ngephonografi kunye nemfundo yezesondo- iphonografi ikwimeko efanayo kubafazi ukuba bafune "izinto ezigwenxa ukuze bave nantoni na".

"Ngeminyaka engama-25, njengowasetyhini omncinci, ubusele ubukele iminyaka eli-10 yamanyala ezesondo," uSharpe uxelela uDazed. Ukholelwa ekubeni inkcubeko yangoku ikhuthaza abantu basetyhini ukuba balinganise ngempazamo inkululeko yokulala ngesondo kunye nesini - inyani yenziwa mandundu xa amadoda amancinci "eshiye ukuba abafazi bafuna ukuphalazwa". Inqaku lokudideka apha kukuba abantu ababhinqileyo abayonti nje benkcubeko, kodwa kukuba inokuba ibumbe iminqweno yabo ngokungafanelekanga, kwaye babhekise kubo ukuba bafune isini esihlala sokwenza into yokuphambana engeyiyo eyabo kwaye ibabeke engozini.

Ukuxoxisana ngesondo ngokungekho mthethweni kukwenza ukungahambisani noluntu lwase-BDSM kunye nezinto zalo. Abantu bayiboleke i-aesthetics yayo kwaye bacinga ukuba 'bayaphambuka' ngaphandle kokuthatha imigaqo nezikhokelo ezimalunga nemvume kunye nokhuseleko oluhlala kuyo uluntu. Ukuziswa kwindawo ephambili yi (ngokungathintelekiyo) Imithunzi engama-50 Impembelelo ikhuthaze kuphela ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kunye nokumelwa gwenxa kwenkcubeko ye-BDSM kunye noluntu, olugcina umthetho ngokugqibeleleyo- imvume sisiseko senkcubeko, kwaye ukuba uyayenza ngokusempilweni nangokukhuselekileyo, ungangena okanye uphume nangaliphi na ixesha .

"Kunzima ukutsho ukuba le ntshukumo yobundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesini kwabasetyhini kunye nendlela ekhuselwe ngayo ithi malunga nathi kunye nomzuzu wangoku, kodwa ngelixa sijonga oku, kubalulekile ukuba ukhuseleko lubekwe kwindawo yomthetho nakwezenkcubeko"

Olunye uluqwalaselo yindlela ubundlobongela obutshatileyo obunxulumana ngayo 'nengxaki' yobudoda. Ukuba amadoda azokufikelela kweyona ndlela iphambili yokubonisa amandla kunye namandla ngexesha lengxaki ngokudibeneyo kunokuba lula kakhulu ukugqiba, kwaye usilela kunobungqina bokwenyani (okwangoku). Kodwa kufanelekile ukuqwalasela ukuba ngaba amadoda 'atyhalela ngasemva' ngasese kwigumbi lokulala kwaye ukude neliso loluntu. Isithuba-Nam umzuzwana uphose ukuthandana kwabantu besini kwimeko yokudideka: amanye amadoda ngequbuliso afumana indlela yawo yangaphambili yokuziphatha ngokwesondo ukuba ngoku ichazwe njengengamkelekanga; Abanye baziva benomsindo malunga notshintsho oluye lwaya phambili ngamandla amakhulu kunye nesantya ngenxa yomzuzu emva kwentshukumo.

UConor Creighton, umbhali kunye nenkokeli yokucamngca eye yajolisa ekuqhubeni iindibano zocweyo malunga nokunaka kunye nobudoda, ikholelwa ukuba kukho "isiphithiphithi esininzi malunga nolwalamano" phakathi kwamadoda okwangoku, kodwa kungabi ngumsindo. “Andiqondi ukuba amadoda anomsindo, kodwa umsindo kuphela kwento ekhuthazwayo amadoda ukuba abelane ngayo,” utshilo. "Ke ukuba umntu uxinezelekile, ulusizi, okanye udidekile uphuma ngumsindo, kuba yindlela esidibana ngayo nathi."

Kusenzima ukusho ukuba le ntshukumo kubundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo kwabasetyhini kunye nendlela ekhuselweyo ngayo ithi ngathi nangomzuzu wangoku, kodwa ngelixa sijonga njalo, kubalulekile ukuba ukhuseleko lubekwe kumanqanaba omthetho kunye nenkcubeko. Kwicala lezomthetho, oku kugutyungelwe ngabantu abathandwayo Asinakuvuma kule Khankaso kunye nomsebenzi wabo wokuba igatya longezwe kuMthetho oYilwayo wokuSetyenziswa gwenxa kwaBantu oza kuqinisekisa ukuba imbali yomfazi oswelekileyo ayinakusetyenziswa ngokuchasene naye umbulali wakhe. Kwinqanaba lenkcubeko, kunzima ukwazi ukuba ungaqala phi. Ukuvuma ukuba ubundlobongela obujoliswe kwabasetyhini bubonakalisa ngeendlela ezifihlakeleyo nezizimeleyo kuyafuneka- kwaye kufuneka kwangoko mhlawumbi- kungoko kuphela apho sinokuthi sizame ukusombulula ingxaki ekhulayo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ebulalayo apho umdla wabasetyhini nokunyanzela kwiindlela ezigqithileyo zesini ibeka zibabeka emngciphekweni, kwaye ishiya inkcubeko yethu ingaziwa.

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Ummeli uMary Sharpe uxoxa ngephonografi kunye nolwaphulo-mthetho kwiThoba

Advocate Mary Sharpe uvele izolo izolo kwi I-BBC yeThoba Ukuxoxa malunga nokuqhelekileyo kwendalo yamanyala obonayo, esele ikho qiniswa Ukulandela ukugwetywa kwendoda ngokubulala UGrace Millane ngoNovemba ophelileyo.

U-Ms Millane - oneminyaka engama-21 ubudala ongxwelerhileyo wabulawa e-New Zealand ngelixa wayethandana nale ndoda.

Nks Sharpe, onobubele bakhe I-Foundation Foundation yenza uphando kule ndawo ifikeleleke kuluntu, ixoxa ngale nto kunye nomthetho wokuqinisekiswa kobudala obusezandleni Urhulumente wase-UK.

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Inani labakwishumi elivisayo abafuna unyango lwe-sex kwi-NHS lingaphezulu kwiminyaka emibini, ngokwamanani asemthethweni.

Iingcali zikugxeke ngokukhuseleka okuxhaphakileyo kokuxhaphaka kwamanyala kwii-smartphones zabo nakumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, esithi omnye ulutsha Lindela ukuba isini “sigqibelele ngalo lonke ixesha”.

Lilonke, bayi-4,600 abantwana kunye nabantu abancinci abaneminyaka eli-19 ubudala okanye abalufunayo unyango lonyango lobufazi ngo-2017-18 nango-2018 ukuya ku-19. Kwisithuba seminyaka emibini edlulileyo, bekubhekiswa kuma-1,400.

Xa bebonke, abakwishumi elivisayo benza umguli omnye kwabali-1 abafumana ukululekwa ngokwesondo, xa kuthelekiswa nomntu omnye kwabayi-10 kwiminyaka emibini eyadlulayo, ingxelo ye-NHS Digital.

UMuriel O'Driscoll, umcebisi kunye nonyango kwezesondo ethe yanyanga ulutsha, uthe: “Nabantu abancinci, ngamanye amaxesha, ngaphandle kokufumaneka kwemfundo yesondo, bahlala njalo bayazi into abayenzayo okanye balindele ukuba isondo lifezeke lonke ixesha.

Abayazi into abayenzayo kuba basekela amava abanokubakho kwiifilimu ezingamanyala okanye iividiyo ezikwi-Facebook nakuzo zonke izinto zosasazo. Ayisiyonyani-inyani ayifezekanga. Ngamanye amaxesha isini siyasebenza; ngamanye amaxesha ayenzi.

“Balindele ukuba abantu babe nakho ukwenza ii-orgasms ngokuqhwanyaza. Ewe, ukuba umntu oselula uye wanamava amabi kwisini sabo sokuqala, oko kuyadlala ezingqondweni zabo. ”

U-O'Driscoll, osebenzela amaziko okucebisa i-NHS kunye ne-Brook Advisory kwaye ngoku uziqhelanisa ngasese eMerseyside, wathi amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana ngamanye amaxesha babe nexhala lokuba izitho zabo zangasese azikhange zibonakale okanye zilinganise abo babone kwi-intanethi.

Abantwana bayakhubeka kwi-ponografi kwi-intanethi ukususela kubudala beminyaka esixhenxe, ingxelo efunyenwe kwinyanga ephelileyo. Uvavanyo, oluvela kwiBhodi yaseBritani yoHlelo lweFilim, lucebise ukuba ikota ezintathu zabazali zabaziva ngathi umntwana wabo ngebengekaboni i-porn kwi-intanethi, kodwa ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha benze njalo. Ulutsha luchaze ukuba baziva "bedidekile" ngezinto abazibonileyo.

UMary Sharpe, igosa eliyintloko lezoncedo kwi-Reward Foundation, uthe: “Ukusetyenziswa gwenxa kwetekhnoloji kudala ulutsha olunxungupheleyo, olunxungupheleyo kwaye luneengxaki zesini esinye. Ukusukela ekuqalekeni kwebhendi yesantya esiphezulu ngo-2006, ukuxhaphaka kweengxaki zempilo yengqondo kuye kwanda phakathi kwabantu abancinci. Ngaba zidibene?

"Amashishini e-Intanethi kunye ne-porn enza konke okusemandleni akhe ukuyikhanyela, kodwa sicinga ukuba badibene ngenxa yokuba iimpawu zihlala zicace bakuba abantu beye kwi-detox yedijithali evumela ubuchopho babo ukuba babuyiselwe kulonwabo lwemihla ngemihla."

Kule minyaka mibini idlulileyo, inani labantu bayo yonke iminyaka abafuna uncedo lenyuke laya kutsho kuma-47,300, ishumi elinesihlanu kubo bebekwishumi elivisayo.

UClaire Murdoch, umlawuli kazwelonke wezempilo e-NHS eNgilane, uthe: "Into icace gca yimfuneko yokuba amanye amalungu oluntu aqale ukuthatha uxanduva ngezenzo zawo, enze uxanduva olufanelekileyo lokugcina kunye nokuphelisa ukonakaliswa kwendlela yokuziphatha kwi-intanethi - ke i-NHS ayishiywanga ukuba ichonge iziqwenga.

UMary Sharpe ucatshulwe kweli nqaku linamandla ngokuziphatha kweshishini lokubonisa amanyala. Isilumkiso: le nto inemathiriyeli enokufundwa ngabafundi abathile. Ipapashwe kwi27 ngoSeptemba 2019.

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I-JESSICA REDDING isweleke kwiveki ephelileyo; I-Coroner yaseLos Angeles County yaqinisekisa ukuba wayeneminyaka eyi-40.

Wayesebenza amanyala phantsi kwegama uJessica Jaymes. Ukusweleka kwakhe ngaphambi kwexesha yinto eqhelekileyo kwabo bakubizwa ngokuba "ngumzi wokuzonwabisa wabantu abadala."

Ifilimu yokuqala eluhlaza eyenziwa ngokutsha yayinguThandwe Olahlekileyo, xa wayengu-16 nje.

Namhlanje, njengoko umzimba kaJessica Redding ulindele ulwaziso lwasemva kwesidumbu eLos Angeles, enye yewebhusayithi webhunga apha eBritane ixelela abantwana abancinci kunoRedding xa wayeyenza kwifilimu yakhe yokuqala ukuba kufuneka bagqibe malunga nokuxhonywa kwabo malunga iphonografi.

IWarwickshire County Council's “Zihlonele” isikhokelo, ixhaswe yiWarwickhire yezeMpilo yoLuntu, isinceda ukuba ichaze oko ikuchaza njengentsomi malunga nephonografi.

I-Warwickshire yenye nje yamabhunga amaninzi ukuba ivelise isikhokelo ngokwesondo kunye nolwalamano olujolise kubantwana, ulutsha kunye nabantu abadala abancinci.

Abanye abafundi banokucinga ukuba ingxaki yabantwana ababukela iphonografi kukuba igqwetha ukuqonda kwabo ngesondo, ngokubonakalayo kukhokelela kubhubhane lwamakhwenkwe alingisa into abayibonileyo kunye nokubetha amantombazana ngokwesini. Ukuphathwa gadalala ngokwesini ezontlalontle ezikolweni kukonyuswe ngepesenti ye-521 eWarwickhire phakathi kwe2013-16).

Abanye banokuthi ukunyuka kwee-labiaplasties okanye I-40 ipesenti yabasetyhini abancinci abathi ingxelo yokuba bacinezelekile ukuba babelane ngesondo, njengezimpawu zokuba iphonografi iyanefuthe kuluntu.

Zombini ziya kuba azilunganga, ngokwe sikhokelo se-Honuff Yourself, esibonisa ngokuzithemba "eyona nto iphambili kubantu abancinci ukubukela iphonografi kukuba ibonwa njengento abangafanelekanga ukuba bayayenza".

Kumzamo wabo wovelwano wokubonakala ngathi “ungaphantsi kwabantwana,” abo bangasemva kolo khokelo bazingcatsha njengabangenalwazi, abangamanyala.

Abagxeki abanqwenela ukucebisa ukubukela "abaThengi beLesini abaqeqeshi beLestiX," "Bonke abaHlazi be2" okanye "Ikhoboka lasebusuku" (zonke izihloko ezithengiswa kakhulu uJessica Redding) zisenokungamcebisi umntwana ukuba aqonde malunga nolwalamano olusempilweni. njenge, ngokucacileyo ngaphandle-kwe-touch-yeeper-clutching prlies ekusenokwenzeka ukuba zifuna ukubonwa okuhle.

Ngapha koko, esona sizathu sokuba amanenekazi achithakele kangaka malunga nokufumaneka kwezinto ezibonisa amanyala kukuba ibambele isizukulwane se-iPhone ilungelo lokufumana ubungqina bokwabelana ngesondo.

Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuqinisekisa ukuba abakwishumi elivisayo ukuba abanikezeli ngemipu ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kubenza bangaboni, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo oko kuya kubanceda bakhululeke emizimbeni yabo.

Kodwa nini intombazana eneminyaka eli-12 ibhalele ukuba zihlonele, ukhathazekile ukuba ubelikhoboka lemifanekiso engamanyala kwaye echaza ukuba ubukele oko "malunga nobusuku," impendulo yayingekokumxelela ukuba iphonografi iyingozi kwaye ayisiyonto yokumqinisekisa ukuba isini kunye nokuxhaphazwa okubonisiweyo yayingeyiyo unokulindela njengomdala.

Ngapha koko, ukuzihlonipha Kugxotha umbono wokuba iphonografi iyamakhoboka okanye iyonakalisa nangayiphi na indlela.

NgokukaMary Sharp we-Reward Foundation, isisa semfundo esigxile kuthando, isini kunye ne-Intanethi, oku akuyonyaniso.

Kudliwanondlebe ngaphambili kulo nyaka kuMlondolozi, ucacisile: “I-porn engaphezulu iyayitshintsha indlela abantwana abakhula ngayo ngokwesini… xa besebungozini bokuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye neziyobisi. Uninzi lweziyobisi kunye nokuphazamiseka kwengqondo ziqala xa ufikisa. ”

Iziphumo zoku zinokubonwa ngokucacileyo kwi amaxabiso okungasebenzi kakuhle kwe-erectile, enyuke ukusuka kwi-2-3 yeepesenti yamadoda aphantsi kwe-35 kwi-2002 ukuya kwi-30 ipesenti ukusukela ekuqalisweni kokusasazwa simahla, ingcaciso ephezulu ye-porn.

Kwenye indawo kule ndawo "ikhwizi Imibuzo" icela abasebenzisi ukuba bakhethe kuluhlu lweempendulo ezinokubakho xa bebambe iqabane labo libukele iphonografi.

Ngokwenyani siyazi ukuba "iqabane" elibukela iphonografi kunokwenzeka ukuba libe yindoda, nangona ke Zihlonele kakuhle zisikhumbuza "omabini la mantombazana kunye namantombazana abukela iphonografi."

Nokuba ukhetha ukukhetha "kuyonakalisa" okanye "kushushu", impendulo kukubeka nakuphi na ukungaphatheki kakuhle kuba wonke umntu "uyayithanda imfumba."

Ukucaca, ukuba "ne-fiddle" ayisiyo ngxaki, impembelelo egwenxa yokusetyenziswa kweefilimu ezingamanyala liqabane lakho kukuzithemba kwakho.

Kude ngokusondeza abantu kunye, ukusebenzisa iphonografi a eyona nto iphambili kulwalamano.

Ngokutyelelwa kweendawo ezingamanyala, eziphezulu zeNetflix, iAmazon kunye ne-Twitter zidibeneyo, imboni yezesondo ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo iyakuphila ngaphandle koncedo loluntu ekuvuseleleni eWarwickshire.

Nangona kunjalo, isikhokelo se-Honuff You pach senza umsebenzi olungileyo wobudlelwane noluntu, ucacisa: "Ishishini lezesondo lelinye lazo ezimbalwa apho abafazi benza imali eninzi kunamadoda."

Kumncinci omncinci oku kuyinyani. Thatha uSheena Shaw, umzekelo. Uzenzele igama njengo "ukumkanikazi we rosebudding. "

I-Rosebudding ligama elisetyenziswa kwishishini lokujonga imifanekiso engamanyala lokwenza i-anal prolapse, apho inyanzeliso i-rectum ikhutshiwe.

Oku kubonakala kuyinto ethandekayo, njengoko uShaw esitsho ngokucacileyo: "Inkcubeko isifundisa into esingayithandiyo nokungayithandi."

Abafazi abenze lo mngcipheko weentlungu ezikhathazayo, iingxaki ezinzima zamathumbu kunye nokuvuza kwe-anal.

Xa uVictor magazine wabuza uShaw malunga nento anokuyenza xa wenzakele, waphendula wathi: “Akukho mntu owakhe wathetha ngaloo nto. Benza ukuba usayine ngaphambi kokuba wenze ezi zinto. Ngokuqinisekileyo awuzukufumana imali yabasebenzi. "

Mhlawumbi ngokunikwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo imfuno ebonakalayo yamanyala anamhlanje, abo bashiya umzi mveliso banika ingxelo yokuba iziyobisi, ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokunyanzela Kwiseti kugcwele ukubakho; Uninzi lwabasetyhini luhlala phakathi kweenyanga ezintathu kunye ne-18 kwiinyanga ngaphambi kokuhamba.

Masinyaniseke, akukho nto igunyazisa ukuba u-rectum akhuphe i-anus yakho ngelixa ubizwa ngokuba "ngunongogo," ukhafule kwaye utshutshiswe kwikhamera.

Ngaphandle kwezi zinto zikhohlakele, amabango eWebhusayithi aHloniphekileyo athi "izifundo zibonisa ukuba enyanisweni iinkwenkwe ezibonisa amanyala azithembile kwaye zinelisekile ngumsebenzi kunabantu abaqhelekileyo." Ezi zifundo azibhekiswa kuzo.

Kuluntu olunezinto ezi-porn, kufuneka sizijonge izinto kwaye silungiselele abantwana oko baya kuthi bakubone kwi-Intanethi kwaye, ngokulungeleleneyo, isikhokelo esithile ku-Intlonelo yaKho sinemfesane kwaye siyacinga.

Kodwa ucoceko lweshishini elusizi olwakhelwe phezu kweentsizi zabasetyhini kunye namantombazana alunakuxoleleka.

Kwinjongo yayo yokubonakala ngathi ilungile, igxile kulutsha kwaye iyathandeka, iWarwickhire County Council isengozini yokuxhobisa isizukulwana ukuba sicinge ukuba impatho-gadalala eboniswe kwimifanekiso engamanyala ayisiyonto eqhelekileyo, kodwa inqweneleka.

UJo Bartosch ngumlawuli weCofa ku-Off, umkhankaso wokuphelisa imfuno yamanyala. Nceda undwendwele iwebhusayithi yayo kwaye uqwalasele ukunikela www.cbhoffoff.org.

UMary Sharpe ucatshulwe ngokubanzi kule nqaku nguPeter Diamond, epapashwe ngo-19 April 2019.

'I-block' yesigxina ezayo e-UK yamkelwa ngabaphulophuli, kodwa iingxaki zokuthetha ezikhululekile zigqitywa yiCawa.

AmaKatolika anamkele i-block block yobudala boononografi e-UK, ekufuneka iphunyezwe kwiinyanga ezizayo, kwaye ithi iBandla lingakhokelela ekuchaseni izilwanyana zokuxhatshazwa kwezobisi.

Kwaye kwaziswa ngeveki ukuba ukuqinisekiswa kweminyaka kwiisayithi zoononondazi kuya kuqaliswa ngoJulayi 15.

Xa selekwaziswa, abantu abadala baya kufuneka baqinisekise ukuba bangaphezu kwe-18 ngokubhalisa iinkcukacha zabo okanye ukuthenga i-voucher, ukwenzela ukufikelela kwiiduna.

Inkululeko yamazwi

AmaKatolika anceda ukulwa nomlingo kunye neCawa yaseScotland baye bamkela ukunyuka, nakuba beqaphele ukuba inkululeko yentetho kufuneka ikhuselwe kurhulumente.

UMat Fradd ngumlobi ongumKatolika kunye nesithethi kwi-pornography e-US.

Usandul 'uqalise inkqubo entsha ye-21-Day Strive21 ukuhlangula abantu kwiindawo ezibuhlungu bokulumkisa i-pornography.

"Ndivuyiswe ngokunqanda i-porno yase-UK," watsho. "Ayiyi kuvimba abantu abatsha abazama ukufikelela kwiimfono zoononophelo kodwa ngokubulela ngoku sibona olu hlobo lokunqanda.

"Icawa inendima yokudlala kwimfazwe yokulwa noonografi. Njengoko ikhathekthi yamaKatolika ithi, 'sidalwa ngomfanekiso nofana noThixo,' kwaye ngenxa yoko itshintsha indlela esicinga ngayo ngabantu. Ukufundisa kweCawa kulo mbandela othile kukuba ukugqithiswa kweentlanzi kuyisigqila-sibizwa ukuba siyinkolelo yokuthanda kwethu. "

Ingozi engaziwayo

UMnu. Fradd wongezelela esithi: "Ukusetyenziswa koonobumba kuye kwagubungela kwiminyaka yamuva kwaye abaninzi abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-8-12 bajonga iifoto kunye neengqungquthela zengqungquthela into esingazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba yingozi kangakanani kwaze kwaba yiminyaka eyi-50 phantsi komgca.

"Ndicinga ukuba yinto ethile kwiminyaka eyi-50 abantu baya kusincinca ngokuphazamiseka bathi, 'unokwenza njani oku, unokusivumela njani ukuba sibukele le nto.'

"Yintlekele elindeleke ukuba kwenzeke kodwa abantu abanombulelo baqala ukuphulaphula baze bavuke kwiintlungu zabantwana ababukele i-pornography."

I-Strive21 iqalise e-US ezimbini kwiiveki ezidlulileyo kwaye sele ibenabantu abangaphezu kwama-1,000 abhalisela kwi-program-addiction-addiction, kwaye i-seminary yamaKatolika ibonise umdla ekusebenziseni isixhobo.

Umlutha wingozi

Umfundisi waseScotland obandakanyekayo kwinkonzo yokuphilisa uye wamukelwa nayiphi na isithintelo esinokukunceda ukulwa nomlingo wezobisi.

I-Canon uWilliam Fraser, umbingeleli waseParish of the Visitation Church eTaynuilt, wathi: "Ngokudabukisayo ndibonile iingozi ezibangelwa umlingo ngomsebenzi wam enkonzweni yokuphulukisa.

"Ngokuqhelekileyo umlingo wobugqwetha uyaba ngumkhwa umntu ongeyena nje ngokuziphatheka kakubi ngoonwabo kodwa njengempendulo 'yokulimaza.' Oku kufana naluphi na uhlobo lomlutha nokuba lusela okanye iziyobisi kwaye kaninzi kunoko ukuba inxalenye 'yokulimala' iphiliswa koko kuba lula ukujongana 'nomkhwa.' "

I-Canon Fraser yongezelela ukuba 'ukususa' umntu osuka kwi-addicted pornography angathatha iseshoni kodwa 'kwiimeko ezinzima' kunokuthatha inyanga eziliqela okanye neminyaka ukujongana nayo.

"Sisoloko sikhunjuzwa ukuba amandla aphakathi kwethu ngoYesu Kristu mkhulu kunanoma yimuphi amandla ehlabathini," uKanon Fraser uthe, wongezelela ukuba 'uThixo uya kusikhulula njengokuba wahlutha sonke isono esiphambanweni. '

Statistics

I-Porn iyinombolo ye-£ 75 yezigidigidi zehlabathi. Ucwaningo lwe-2016 olupapashwe kwi-Eastern Economic Journal lubonakalisa abantu abajonga iifostile ngokuqhelekileyo abanako ukutshata ngaphezu kwabo bangenalo.

UMary Sharpe ungumphathi ophezulu kwi-The Reward Foundation, imfundo enothando esekelwe eScotland ejongene nesayensi emva kwesondo kunye nothando.

UNksz Sharpe uthe: "Sithanda ngokupheleleyo imithetho engenayo. Abazali bahlala becinga i-pornography ifana neyayiminyaka eyi-20 edlulileyo, kodwa ngoku kubi kakhulu. Kuqhuba ukuxhaphazwa ngokwesini.

"Kunempembelelo enkulu ebuntwini bentliziyo, ingakumbi abantu abaselula abatshayiswayo ukuba baxhamle kwizinto."

Ukuvunyelwa kwePapa

Upapa uvumelekile uNksz Sharpe, kwaye usebenza nezikolo zamaKatolika ukuphuhlisa izicwangciso zezifundo zootitshala.

"Sicinga ukuba umthetho omtsha ubaluleke. Akuyi kunyanga ingxaki kodwa imfundo ibalulekile ezikolweni nasemakhaya, "watsho.

"Siyadala kwaye sinokuphuhlisa izicwangciso zezifundo kwizikolo zaseScotland, kubandakanywa namaKatolika, apho siza kubadala ngokuhambelana neemfundiso zeCawa kunye nezibonelelo zothando zikaThixo.

"Iicawa kunye neepariti zinokudlala indima enkulu ekulwa nombandela. Kubalulekile ukufundisa amaKatolika kulo mbandela kunye neCawa ayinakukuthandaza nje loo mbandela iya kuhamba-kufuneka iphulaphule kwaye ibenze ngokholo olufanelekileyo kwaye ukuba yenza njalo inokukhokelela kulo mbandela. "

Ukuxhotyiswa kwabaProfeti

UMariya wongezelela ukuba ababingeleli babekwazi 'ukuxhotyiswa' ukuthetha ngombandela okanye bacebise abantu ngcebiso malunga nokuba bangaphi uncedo.

I-Freedom of Speech campaigners iye yaphakamisa inkxalabo yokuba umthetho omtsha uya kubona ukubetha inkulumo yentetho. Ukuvinjelwa kobugqwetha kuyingxenye yemigudu karhulumente jikelele ekuthintela oko kuthathwa njengentetho enenzondo kwi-intanethi.

Ummeli weCawa yamaKatolika eScotland wathi: "Kubalulekile ukuba yonke imimiselo emitsha ekuthethwa ngayo 'inokulimaza inthanethi' kunye 'nezinto ezihlaselayo' ixhasa ilungelo lokubambisa inkululeko yokuthetha, ingcinga, isazela kunye nenkolo evumela ukuba yeembono kunye neengxoxo, ngaphandle kokwesaba okanye ukuthandwa.

"Ukugcina ukhuseleko lwe-intanethi yabantwana kunye namaqela abasengozini kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngaphandle kokungeniswa kwenkcazelo 'yeenkohlakalo' kodwa kunzima ukubona indlela oku kwenziwa ngayo. "

"Ukuvumela umlawuli ozimeleyo ukuba anqume ukuba okanye akukho mxholo unobungozi kwaye unokuthi uvimbele, inokuthi ibangele kwimingcele kwiintetho zonqulo."

SCES

Umzimba womzali wamaKatolika waseScotland uye wamkela isikhokelo se-porn.

UJo Sores, usihlalo weqela labazali labafundi beScottish Catholic Education Service, wathi: "Umthetho omtsha kufuneka wenze kube nzima nakakhulu ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukungena kwizinto ezingafaniyo zesondo kwi-intanethi okanye ngephutha.

"Kubalulekile ukuba sinqande umxholo wezobulopho ukuze abantwana bethu bangabi nesimo sengqondo esingaphephile kwisimo sokuziphatha ngokwesini kunye nemvume okanye imibono engabonakaliyo yobudlelwane kunye nemifanekiso yomzimba.

"Ukuthintela imifanekiso engamanyala e-intanethi kubantu abadala kuya kuthemba ukuba kunzima ukukhokela abantwana bethu kwizinto ezifundisa ngokuhambelana nenkolelo yethu kwisidima sabantu bonke."

I-Viagra njengesiyobisi sokuphila yabona uMary Sharpe ocatshulwe kule nqaku yendlela yokuphila ye-Huffpost evela kwi-3 ngo-Epreli 2019.

'Bayithatha ngaphambi kokuya kwiklabhu': Kutheni iViagra isetyenziswa sisizukulwana esitsha

Ayisosisiyobisi nje samadoda amadala, iViagra isetyenziswa ngokuzonwabisa ngabafana abakwinqanaba eliphezulu. Ngu

Kwakungolwesithathu uAlex azame ukuyifaka ikhondomu. Ngaphandle kokuba evukile kwaye esazi ukuba eli yayilixesha lakhe kuphela lokuba abe neentlobano zesini nomfazi awadibana naye kwangorhatya ngokuhlwa, akakwazanga ukuhlala nkqo. Nokuba ubuchopho bakhe bufuna kangakanani ukuba nesondo, umzimba wakhe awuzithobanga.

Ekugqibeleni wayamkela le meko, wacela uxolo kumhla wakhe "wexinzelelo lwentsebenzo" - enziwe wabi kakhulu yi-cocktail yotywala kunye necocaine- kwaye wafunga ukuba akayiphindi yenzeke. Ngemini elandelayo waya kwikhemistri wathenga ipakethi yeetafile ze-sNenXil sildenafil, eyaziwa njengeViagra.

U-Alex, okwiminyaka yakhe yamashumi amabini, akakulungeli ukuba nesimilo somsebenzisi weViagra: uluntu lusayibona ipilisi eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka njengonxibelelene namadoda amadala atshatileyo, ekunokwenzeka ukuba abe nempilo enkenenkene kunye nokugula ngenxa yobudala okanye ukunganyangi okunxulumene nokugula. Kodwa imeko ka-Alex, kunye nesigqibo sakhe sokusebenzisa i-viagra ukujongana nengxaki, kude kwahlukile.

Yinyanga ye12 okoko iViagra yafumaneka e-UK ngaphandle komyalelo. Oosokhemesti bagqiba ekubeni bathengise amadoda ichiza, elenziwe ngegama 'iViagra Connect' kwaye elenziwe ngumvelisi uPfizer, ngokusekwe kwimpilo yabo kunye nokuba ngawaphi amanye amayeza abanokuba bawasela. Injongo yokuqala xa kwandiswa ukufikelela kwesiyobisi kwi-2018, yayikukulwa inani Iipilisi zokungasebenzi kakuhle zomgunyathi kuthengiswa ngokungekho mthethweni kwi-Intanethi. Kodwa isigqibo sikwanaso nesiphumo esingalindelekanga sokwazisa iyeza kwinxalenye entsha yentengiso.

UMurray Blacket, ugqirha wezokwabelana ngesondo emantla e-London, uthi wabona abafana abaninzi bethatha iViagra njenge- "mgaqo-nkqubo we-inshurensi" okanye "wokudutyulwa" ebomini egumbini lokulala. Ngokwesiqhelo oku kuyakuba ngaphambi kokuba bahambe ebusuku.

“Sithetha nge-LGBT Indawo yesehlakalo kodwa kwindawo ethe ngqo apho kuyafana neempelaveki ezilahlekileyo apho unxulumana nomntu, thatha umthwalo wecocaine kunye neViagra, yehla umngxunya womvundla, phuma ngoMvulo, ”utshilo uBlacket.

Kwangoko ka-Agasti 2017, kwiinyanga ezisibhozo ngaphambi kokuba kuthengiswe kwisitrato esikhulu, ogqirha e-UK besenza ingxelo Imeko ekhulayo yamadoda asemncinci ethenga eli chiza ngokungazi kwi-intanethi ngenjongo yokuphucula ukusebenza ngokwesondo okanye, njengoAlex, ukumelana nokusetyenziswa kwamanye amachiza okuzonwabisa enza ukuba kube nzima ukugcina ulwalamano.

Abantu base-UK basengozini ngakumbi kunale ndawo yaseYurophu, eMelika, e-Australia okanye eCanada, ukudibanisa isondo neziyobisi, ngokwe-2019 yoPhando lweZiyobisi lweHlabathi, nokuba kungabhekiswa kwisini okanye ngokwesondo. Ezona zinto zixhaphakileyo ezisetyenzisiweyo yayotywala, i-cannabis, MDMA kunye necocaine - zonke ezinokuthintela ukusebenza ngokwesondo ukuba kuthathwe kwiidosi eziphezulu.

I-Viagra isebenza ngokuqinisekisa ukuhamba kwegazi okwaneleyo ngaphakathi kwilungu lobudoda ukuze ihlale imile. Ayinampembelelo ngoko nangoko kwaye isebenza kuphela xa indoda ithe yavuseleleka ngokwesini. Ke awuhambi ujikeleze iklabhu yasebusuku nge-erection yeeyure zokugqibela, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukuthembela kuyo ukuba uza kuba nethamsanqa ekupheleni kobusuku.

UBlacket uthi uninzi lwamadoda aselula ayithathayo ziingcali - ootitshala, amagqwetha, abaqeqeshi babucala. I-Viagra ayibizi kangako njengoko yayikade injalo, kodwa isasebenza kwakhona kwi- £ 19.99 yepakethi emacwecwe amane okanye i- £ 34.99 isibhozo. Ayibizi kakhulu, yintoni, ngokufanelekileyo, ukuba kunokwenzeka.

“Amadoda aselula aqhubeka engazithembi kangako kwisini sabo,” utshilo uBlacket. "Aba bantu bathatha iViagra njengento ekhuthaza ukuzithemba. Ayisiyonto yokwabelana ngesondo ngokuzonwabisa - imalunga nokwabelana 'ngesondo eliqhelekileyo'.

Oku kwehla ngokuzithemba idityaniswa rhoqo ngokunyuka kwenani labantu ababukela rhoqo imifanekiso engamanyala kwi-Intanethi. Izifundo zamva nje ezifunyenwe phakathi kwe-14% kunye ne-35% yamadoda aselula athi afumana ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile xa kuthelekiswa ne-2-3% ngaphambi kwe-2008. UMary Sharpe we Umvuzo weZiseko, isisa semfundo egxile kuthando, isini kunye ne-intanethi uxelele uMgcini"Okoko i-2008, xa sasimahla, ukuchaza imifanekiso engamanyala ephezulu yafumaneka ngokulula, inyuka ngokuzinzileyo."

Ukutshintsha kobume bokuthandana kukwanendima ekufuneka bayidlalile, ”uxoxa ngelitshoyo uBlacket, ngokukhula kweenkqubo zokuthandana kunye nokujolisa ekunxibelelaneni ngesondo okwenzekileyo okuthetha ukuba abantu banokufuna ukuba neentlobano zesini. “Ukuba akukuphathi kakuhle abantu bayaqhubekeka badibane nomnye umntu,” utshilo. "Inkcubeko yokuma ngobusuku obunye yinto eqhubekayo malunga noku. Unethuba elinye.

Ayisiyo kuphela uxinzelelo ngakumbi lokusoloko ulungele ukulala ngesondo, kodwa uninzi lwezinto zokuziphatha ngokwesondo ziqulunqwe bubukho botywala kunye nezinye iziyobisi ezithintela ukusebenza. “Aba bantu bahlala besabelana ngesondo emva kweziselo, ukuba azikho iziyobisi. Ukuthatha iViagra kubonakala ngathi kuyinxibelelanisa noluvo lokuba 'ndinganokufumana iipuzzle ezimbalwa kwaye ndiza kukwazi ukuyenza'.

Kwaye loo ngcinga iya ihamba phambili, njengoko i-Viagra iqala ngokuzinza kwinkcubeko yesiqhelo, uBlacket uthi. “Ngoku kukho izibhengezo kumhlaba ongaphantsi nangaphantsi kweebhasi zeViagra [ezisiwe] eVespa. Ezi nkampani zibone utshintsho kwimarike kwaye ziyaphumelela. ”

Kubonakala ngathi inkampani ye-Deliveroo-style izisa iViagra emnyango wakho idlale indima ekwenzeni ichiza ukuba lithandeke kubantu abancinci. Endaweni yento ekufuneka uyibiwe kwikhabhathi yokuhlambela katata wakho, unokuyi-odola ngendlela oya kuyo ipitsa. Impembelelo yolu tshintsho lwenkcubeko ibangele ukuba uBlacket abone amadoda aliqela engenamdla malunga nokusebenza, awayecinga ukuba ukuthatha iViagra kuya kubenza babe nzima ngakumbi kwaye nezokwabelana ngesondo ziyonwabisa.

IBlacket inenkxalabo yokuba abanye kwabo bakhetha ukusebenzisa iViagra ngokuzonwabisa bathatha iidosi eziphezulu kunokuba wayeza kucebisa ngesiqhelo. Uninzi luthatha iipilisi ze-100mg, ngelixa i-NHS icebisa idosi ye-50mg kanye ngemini. "Abantu abayazi ncam ukuba ithamo lithetha ntoni - basebenzisa imeko yovithamini ngokuthatha nje ngaphezulu." uyachaza. ”

Ukuthatha kakhulu i-sildenafil kunokubangela iziphumo ezingathandekiyo njengentloko, isiyezi, ukugungqa, impumlo evaliweyo kunye nembono etshintshiweyo. “Ndikhe ndabuza abanye babo ukuba baziva njani ngemini elandelayo bathi akukho rhabaxa,” utshilo. Bambalwa kubo beze kum kwaye bandibuza ukuba 'Ngaba kufanele ukuba ndikhathazeke? Ndingayenza le nto ixesha elingakanani? ”

Imenza abe nexhala lokuba abantu basebenzisa iipilisi ukutyabeka nangaphezulu, kwimiba enzulu enqanda ubomi babo bezesondo. Babeka uncedo lwebhendi phezu kwengxaki yeViagra. Oku kufanele ukuba kube yinto yethutyana. ”

Iingcaphuno zikaMary Sharpe kwiNkcazo ye-11 kwi-Guardian ibonakala kule nqaku kwiwebhusayithi yamaKatolika LifeSiteNews. Eli nqaku licaphula imithombo esiyihlonelayo kuquka ne-neurosurgeon uDkt Donald Hilton kunye ne-yourbrainonporn.com.

Matshi 29, 2019, (LifeSiteNews) - Amadoda amancinci aphangwa amandla abo ekungeneni ubudlelwane bezesondo kunye nabasetyhini njengamaxesha amaninzi okubukela iifoto zobuqhetseba bebukela ubuchopho babo, banciphisa amandla abo okwenza isondo.

Ngokwemvoko, abesilisa abasebatsha babo nge-30s baxhatshazwa ngesondo, ngokusondelana, ngokuchasana nokuzala, ngokuchasene nothando, ngokuchasana nomtshato, ngokuchasene nomtshato.

Kwaye oko kugonywa kuqhutyelwa ngaphandle kwentlawulo nge-intanethi.

"Kuze kube yi2002, iziganeko zamadoda phantsi kwe-40 kunye ne-ED (i-erectile dysfunction) yayingaphantsi kweepesenti ze-2-3," uMary Sharpe Umvuzo weZiseko xelelwe Guardian. "Ukususela kwi-2008, xa ukusasazeka kwamahhala, iifositom ephezulu-definition itholakala ngokukhawuleza, iye yavuka ngokukhawuleza."

"(P) i-orn iyatshintsha indlela abantwana abavuswa ngayo ngokwesondo," qhubeka Sharpe, kwaye kwenzeke, "ngexesha elidityanelweyo kwiimeko zempilo yengqondo kunye nezilingo. Uninzi lwezilingo kunye neengxaki zempilo yengqondo ziqala ebusheni. "

Inqaku le-Guardian licebise ukuba, "Ukusa kwi-third to young men are now experiencing erectile dysfunction."

Lo mzekelo uye wanda kakhulu kangangokuba unalo igama: "I-Erectile Dysfunction" (I-PIED).

"Esikhundleni sokubambisa isondo sakhe esithandana nabantu abanyanisekileyo, namhlanje iselula iyabonwa phambi kwesikrini, kwaye idibanisa izicwangciso zesondo zeengcingo zibe yedwa egumbini lakhe, ukuzithengisa i-voyeurism kunokuba ithathe inxaxheba," kuchaza ividiyo efundisayo, Ubunjengebuntombi obuneminyaka engama-10 bubambisana ne-Internet.

Omnye ligama ndiza kuyisebenzisa ukuchaza indlela endivakalelwa ngayo xa ndizama ukulala ngesondo kunye nabasetyhini bokwenene, "omnye umfana ocashunwe kwividiyo. "Ndandifumana ingqondo kwaye ndangaphandle."

"Kunjengokuba ndifumene imeko yokuhlala phambi kwesikrini (i-masturbating) ukuba ingqondo yam ibona ukuba isondo sesigane endaweni yesondo yangempela," wongezelela.

"Abafazi abandiguquli, ngaphandle kokuba benziwe kabini nangemva kweglasi yam esweni," kutsho enye.

Abanye babika ithemba labo lokufikelela kunye nokugcina ukulungiswa ngexesha lobudlelwane obusondeleyo kukuthi "ucinge ityala."

Kuba le nto intsha - emva kwayo yonke into, ukufikelela kwi-intanethi ngesantya esiphezulu kudityaniswa nokulula, ukufikelela ngasese kwii-smartphones, ii-iPads, kunye neekhompyuter zelaptop zizinto ezintsha zamva nje- izifundo ezenziwayo kufuneka zenziwe.

Okwangoku, ubungqina be-anecdotal bubekwe njengengcali-kuquka iingcali zengqondo, iingqondo zengqondo kunye ne-urologists-ingxelo yokuba ziva ezi ntlobo zamabhinqa aseminyaka eyadlulayo ebudeni bobuqhetseba besondo.

I-Urologist Paul Church yaxelela i-LifeSiteNews ukuba ngeli xesha akukho bubungqina obuqinileyo bombutho phakathi kokusetyenziswa koonwabo kunye nokusebenza kakubi kwe-erectile, ibangela "inengqiqo kunye neekliniki ezininzi kunye nabagqirha, kuquka nam, kholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba yingxaki enkulu kule sizukulwana esilandelayo. "U

"Kunzima ukwazi kakuhle ukuba bangaphi abaselula abahluphekayo kwi-ED. Kodwa kuyacaca ukuba le yinto entsha, kwaye ayinqabile, " phawula UDkt. Abraham Morgentaler, umlawuli wezeMpilo zeBoston kunye noprofesa wezonyango kwi-Harvard Medical School.

"Ndiyazi ukuba oku kuyinyani nje ngenxa yam namava oku kwenzeke kubantu endisebenza nabo," kutsho uMaureen Newberg, unontlalontle okhuselweyo wezentlalo (uLCSW) osebenza kwiindawo zaseWashington, DC.

"Ndiyinkqubo yangasese apho i-95 ipesenti yabathengi bam kubafana kunye namadoda. Phantse bonke aba bathengi banenkinga yoononophelo okanye umlutha wobugqwetha, "umtshato onikwe ilayisenisi kunye nosapho lwezilwanyana uDavid Pickup utshele i-LifeSiteNews.

"Amava am nemicimbi yabo kunye nempumelelo yabo yokuphuma kwindlela yokusetyenziswa kweentlobano zesibhosiso kuye kwaphumela ekufumaneni ukuba i-porn 'iyinkunkuma' enamandla.

Ukuxhatshazwa koononophelo, njengezinye izilingo, kutyhila ubomi besizukulwana sonke samadoda aselula. Isazi seengqondo seYurophu esiphezulu, uDkt. Gerard van den Aardweg, uyifumanisa:

I-porno-ebukhoboka ngamadoda angamahlwempu, ahlukaniswe nabantu abathandana nabo. Iingcuka ezihamba zodwa. Okukhona iphonografi iyanda, kokukhona bomeleza ukukhathazeka kosana lwabo kunye nomnqweno wokuba "yindoda enkulu," kwaye kokukhona bengenako kunxibelelwano lokwenyani.

Imiphumo engalindelekanga, engalindelekanga ekusebenzisweni kweentlobano eziqhelekileyo ngamadoda amancinci mhlawumbi ehamba ngaphezu kwe-erectile dysfunction kunye nokunciphisa ubudlelwane bomtshato obuphilileyo.

UMark Regnerus, uprofesa woluntu kwiYunivesithi yaseTexas eAustin kunye nomntu ophezulu e-Austin Institute for Study Study of Family and Culture, cetyiswa ulungelelaniso phakathi kokusetyenziswa koononophelo kunye nenkxaso yomtshato wesini omnye emva kwe-2012.

Umphandi phawula Ukuba "inkxaso yenkwenkwe yamadoda omdala ekuhlaziyeni umtshato ingabi yiyo yonke imveliso yeengcinga malunga nokukhululeka, inkululeko, inkululeko, nokuzibophelela okulungileyo. Kungenzeka ukuba, ubuncinci kwinqanaba, umenzi-mveliso wokungabikho rhoqo kwizenzo ezahlukeneyo zobulili, "watyhila nge-intanethi ye-intanethi.

"Iiwebhusayithi ezithandwa kakhulu kwiwebhu zoononopopasho azenzi nto kucalulo isenzo esinye sesini - okanye isigaba saloo - ukusuka kwenye," watsho uRegnerus. "AbaGazers baphathwe kwi-hose-fire-hose yokukhwabanisa isini-isenzo sokuhluka."

"Aba abayi-grandfather's Playboy," wongezelela.

Unobunzima obunobungozi kunye namandla oonografi nge-intanethi

Njengoko imfazwe "inkululeko yokuthetha" amalungelo abanoononografi kunye nezoshishino zabo ziye zadlulelwa kwiminyaka emininzi, bambalwa baqaphela ukuba ababukeli besilisa ababenokuzilimaza. Ngoku i-carnage ayinakwenzeka ukuba ayiyikunyaniseka.

UGqirha uDonald Hilton, unjingalwazi odibana naye kwisebe laseNeurosurgery, kwiDyunivesithi yaseTexas kwiSikolo sezoNyango eSan Antonio kunye nelungu leBhodi yabaLawuli kwiZiko lezeMpilo kwiZempilo yezeSondo, wabhala kwinqaku elinesihloko esithi: Iphonografi. Ityhefu (ayisafumaneki).

Kuyo yonke indawo. I-Pornhub, indawo yesibini evakatyeweyo emnatha, i-92 yabantu abavakashela kwi-2016, eyaneleyo kwividiyo ze-12.5 kuwo wonke umntu kwihlabathi. Liye yindlela yokuqala yemfundo yesondo kubafundi kunye nokukhusela ngoku, nabaninzi abaselula babone ukulala ngokwesondo, kuquka phakathi kwabantu abangaphezu kwembini.

Oku kukhutshwa kwesini esinetyhefu eluntwini kuyabenzakalisa abo bakujongayo kwaye kulikhoboka labo baqhubeka nokusisebenzisa. Nangona kunjalo, la manqaku aphikiswa ngamandla ngumzi mveliso we-porn kunye nabaxolisi kwezemfundo abazixhasayo. Bathi kuphela kwengxaki yoononophala kukuhlazeka kunye nokuziphatha ngokwakha inkolo.

UDkt Jeffrey Satinover, kwi mazwi linikezelwe kwikomiti yeSenate yase-US e-2008, ichaza: "Kuye kubonakala kubonakala kubonakala ukuba iifoto zoonografi ayikho nje into 'yokubonakalisa.' Ukufakwa kwayo kulungele, ukungabi naso, okanye ukungabi nendawo ehlala ixutyushwa ngokufanelekileyo ngokubhekiselele 'kumboniso,' kunye nemithetho yethu ibonakalisa okuninzi. Siphikisana 'nokuziphatha' kweencwadi zoononopopasho; uhlobo lwazo njenge 'phezulu' okanye 'ophantsi' ubugcisa; nokuba ingaba 'naluphi na ixabiso'. Ukubhekiselele 'kwimisebenzi' yoononografi 'yoncwadi' kunye 'nezenzo' zoonomdaniso 'woonomdaniso' zifakwe kumanqanaba aphezulu e-American constitutional law-words-words in quotation marks making it clear that the understanding of pornography as expression is foundational and uncertioned. "U

"Ngokuza kwekhompyutheni, inkqubo yokuhanjiswa kwesi sigxina somlutha (i-intanethi ye-intanethi) sele iphantse ngaphandle kokuxhatshazwa," kuqhubeka uSataninover.

"Kunjengokungathi siye saqulunqa uhlobo lwe-heroin 100 ngamaxesha anamandla kunawo onke, angasetyenziselwa ngasese kwikhaya lakhe kwaye ajojowe ngqo kwingqondo ngamehlo," wongezelela uSataninover. "Ngoku ikhona ngokunikezela ngokungenamkhawulo nge-network-replication distribution network, ezukiswa njengobungcali kwaye ikhuselwe nguMgaqo-siseko."

Ukuhlehlisa umonakalo

"Ukusetyenziswa kakubi ngokwesondo kunokuxhatshazwa ngesohlwayo kuyingxaki apha," kuchaza uDkt. Tim Lock, isazi sezengqondo kunye neprofestile oncedisayo kwiziko leScience Psychological, i-Divine Mercy University.

I-PIED iya kuba kunye nathi "de kubekho amadoda angakhuliswa ngobuchule bokuzithiba kwaye abazali banokuqiniseka ukuba kufuneka basebenzise iifayile ze-intanethi (kunye nokuphendula kwe-intanethi) ukukhusela abantwana babo ukuba bangene kwiiwebhusayithi ezingafanelekanga," kutshilo. kwi-LifeSiteNews. "Akulula okanye akukho umzamo wokukhulisa umntwana oxabisa ukuzithiba, ukuhlambuluka, ukunyaniseka nokuthozama. Ootitshala boonyana kufuneka baqale baqinisekiswe ngala maxabiso. "

"Kunzima ukuthengiswa," kutshilo iLove. "Ngaphandle kokuba niyazi ukuba iNkosi yethu izele ukunikela ubomi, kwaye inika kakhulu."

UDkt. Hilton uchaza amane amanyathelo abalulekileyo:

Okokuqala, kufuneka sikhusele isizukulwana esilandelayo kwisini esinobuhlungu esakhuthazwa yicandelo lezonyango kunye nabaxhasi balo;
Okwesibini, simele sibuyele kuluntu apho abantu abadala bengafuni ukuziphatha okubi koononophelo;
Okwesithathu, inkcubeko yethu ikhula ngokungahambisani nokucwasana ngokobuhlanga, kodwa sinokubhiyozela kokubili ukuba abantu balala ngesondo kwaye iikhamera zihamba. Simele sibambe imboni yezocwangco kumgangatho ofanayo;
Okwesine, sifanele sibuyele kwinkcubeko yentlonipho, inceba, nesihawu, oku kukuchasene kwenkcubeko yezobugcisa.

Ubutyebi benkcazelo malunga nokuyeka uonobumba kunye nokuphunyuka kweziphumo ezinokulimaza kunokufumaneka kwiwebhsayithi eluncedo, Ubunjani bakho kwiSigonyo.

Impendulo esekelwe ebuKristeni ekugqibeleni ukusetyenziswa kwezesono inikwe Zama.

11 Matshi 2019. Kwinqaku enkulu yokuphila Amy Fleming, UMary Sharpe wacatshulwe ngokubanzi Guardian ekusebenziseni imifanekiso engamanyala kunye ne-erectile disysction.

Ngaba i-porno yenza abantu abaselula bengenamandla?

Ukusa kwi-third of young men are now experiencing erectile dysfunction. Abanye baphendukela kwimilinganiselo engqongqo efana nezimpembelelo ze-penile - kodwa ukukhaba iifoto ezingcolileyo kuyisixazululo kuphela?

Umzekeliso: uNishant Choksi

TNanku umkhankaso wesikhangiso okhangisa imigudu yaseLondon Underground ephethe isalathisi esithi "ED UTHILE" ecaleni kwesithombe somntu okhangelekayo ebonakalayo. "Musa ukukhathazeka," kutsho ngokubhala okuncinane ngaphantsi. "U-Ed akayena mfana. Yinto into. Yifutshane ne-erectile dysfunction. "Iiposters zikhuthaza olutsha uhlobo sildenafil (eyaziwa ngokuba yi-Viagra), esimele sicinge ukuba ibulala ingxaki. Kodwa, njengoko limi, i-ED ayikude ifile.

Imarike eyintloko ye-Viagra esetyenziselwa ukuba ibe ngamadoda amadala kwimpilo embi, kodwa ngokuphathelele kwizifundo zakutsha kunye nophando, phakathi kwe-14% kunye ne-35% yabaselula abanamava e-ED. "Kuyamangalisa kodwa kuyinyaniso," kusho uMary Sharpe Umvuzo weZiseko, inkululeko yokufundisa ejolise ekuthandweni, ngesondo nakwi-intanethi. "Kuze kube ngu-2002, iziganeko zamadoda phantsi kwe-40 kunye ne-ED zazizungeze i-2-3%. Ukususela kwi-2008, xa ukusasazeka kwamahhala, i-porn-definition definition ephezulu ifikeleleka ngokukhawuleza, ikhuphuke ngokukhawuleza. "Ubungqina, klinikhi kunye ne-anecdotal, iphakamisa ukuba ukusetyenziswa koonografi kuyisici esibalulekileyo.

Ukudibanisa i-ED kunye nokusetyenziswa koonografi

UClare Faulkner, u-psychosexual kunye nobudlelwane bezobudlelwane obuseMondond, ophakathi kwabo badibana ne-ED kunye nokusetyenziswa koonografi. "Ngoku ndinamakhasimende e-ED kwii-20 zabo zangaphambili," utsho. Ingxenye yenkinga yokujonga iiposografi kukuba "yinto ehlukeneyo kakhulu. Ukhuthazo luza ngaphandle, oluya kunzima ukuba lube mzimbeni wakho. "Kwakhona kuqhubela phambili inkolelo, uthi," amadoda angamaqhawe kwaye abafazi bakulungele ukulala ngesini ".

Ababukeli bodwa beentlobano zoonografi baye bajwayele ukulawula ngokupheleleyo amava abo ezesondo - oko kwakhona, uthi uFaulkner, "akachazweli kwihlabathi lenene". Ukujongana nomntu ongokoqobo, onzima, kunye neemfuno kunye nokungabikho kokungaqiniseki, kunokungaxhomekanga.

PIED

Kwiifom ye-intanethi ezizinikezele ukuxhatshazwa kwe-erectile (i-PIED) ye-erectile (i-PIED), amashumi amawaka amabhinqa abelana ngemingeni yabo yokuyeka ukusebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala, ukunyuka kwabo kwi-pornography ephosakeleyo ukuya kwi-hardcore kunye nemingcipheko abajamelene nayo ekubunzeni ubudlelwane bokwenene bokuthandana kunye nobulili. Kunzima ukubonakalisa ngokucacileyo ukuba uonografi kubangela i-ED, kodwa ezi zingqinisiso ziphinda zifumane iziphumo ezivela kwiincwadi zekliniki: ukuba amadoda angayikhawula imimiselo yabo yoonopopayi, baqala ukufumana amandla abo okuvuswa.

Amanye amadoda aselula aqalise ukunyuswa kwawo, njengokuba NoFap (slang for "akukho masturbating"), esekelwe e-US ngu-Alexander Rhodes. (U-Sharpe ubona ukuba abafana abaselula "balinganise i-masturbation kunye noonografi - abababoni ngokwahlukileyo".) URhodes, ngoku i-31, waqalisa ukusebenzisa i-intanethi ye-11 okanye i-12. "Ndaye kwisizukulwana sokuqala sabantu abakhulile kwi-intanethi ye-intanethi ngokukhawuleza," watsho kwingxoxo yakutshanje kwikhompyutha.

Ngethuba laqala ukulala ngesondo kwi-19, waqhubeka wathi: "Andikwazi ukugcina i-erection ngaphandle kokucinga i-porn. I-intanethi ye-intanethi ye-intanethi yayiyimfundo yam esondo. "Kunyaka ophelileyo, watshela abaphulaphuli kwiSizwe seSizwe se-US malunga nokuxhaphazwa ngokwesondo:" Abantwana baseUnited States kunye nehlabathi elithile eliphuhlisiwe baxhaswa ngamava e-intanethi apho kuboniswa khona ngokuqinisekileyo. "

Abasebenzisi be-Porn baqala abatsha

Ubudala obutsha apho iRhodes yaqala ukubukela iphonografi ayiqhelekanga. Ngo-2016, iYunivesithi yaseMiddlesex yafumanisa ukuba, ngama-60% abantwana abaqale bayibukela emakhayeni abo. Kwaye sifundo sase Irish eyapapashwa ekuqaleni konyaka kwiphephancwadi ye-Porn Studies ithole ukuba i-52% yabafana baqala ukusebenzisa iinthombe zoononografi ngokuphonywa nge-13 okanye ngaphantsi. I-media media ingaba isango, uthi u-Sharpe. "Iinkwenkwezi zoononophelo zi-akhawunti ze-Instagram ngoko zifumana abantwana ukuba bajonge kwi-Instagram, kwaye ngaphakathi kwento yabo baya kuthi: 'Khangela ividiyo yam yakutsha.' Ikhonkco enye okanye ezimbini kwaye ukhangele i-hardcore porn. Izingane ze-12 okanye i-13 akufanele zijonge kwizinto ezikhulayo ezikhulayo. "

I-Foundation Foundation ayiyinkqubo yokuchasana noonografi, uthi u-Sharpe uthi, "kodwa ukugqithisa okugqithisileyo kwatshintsha indlela abantwana abavusa ngayo ngokwesondo". Kwaye kwenzeka ntoni kwiminyaka yabo yokwenza izinto, "ngexesha elidityanelweyo kwiimeko zempilo yengqondo kunye nezilingo. Izidakamizwa ezininzi kunye neengxaki zempilo yengqondo ziqala ebusheni. "Yena kunye noFaulkner bakholelwa ukuba ukunyuka kweefography kusetyenziswa ubuncinane ubuncinane becacisa isizathu Iiminyaka eziwaka zeminyaka zinezesondo ezingaphantsi kunezizukulwana phambi kwabo, ngohlolo olupapashwe kwiphepha le-Archives of Sexual Behavior.

Umntu ongamava

Gabe Deem, umsunguli we-pornography iqela lokubuyisa Ukuqalisa kwakhona isizwe, uthetha ngokucacileyo ngamava akhe. Xa wayengu 23, uthe: "Ndazama ukulala ngesantombazana enhle, umfazi endandithandana kakhulu, kwaye akukho nto eyenzekayo. Andizange ndive naluphi na ukuvuswa komzimba kwaye ndingeke ndifumane umncinci wesakhiwo. "

Njengoko kunye nezinye izilingo, uthi uFaulkner: "Abantu badinga amanyathelo angakumbi ukuze baphakame. Kusoloko kuqhutyelwa imingcele ukufumana into efanayo. Oko kuthetha oko bakubukeleyo kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwaye banokwesabisa. Ndiye ndandixelela abathengi ukuba abanako ucocekileyo ngezinto ezibukeleyo. "Xa abaphandi bafunda ubuchopho babasebenzisi bokugqithisileyo, u-Sharpe uthi:" Bajonga utshintsho olufanayo oluqhelekileyo kuzo zonke izilingo. "U

Ukuxhalabisa ngeNtsebenzo

Abanye basasaza ukunyuka kwe-ED phakathi kwamadoda aselula uxhala lokusebenza, kodwa u-Sharpe uthi ngelixa inokuba yinyani kwabanye, "Yintoni esiyiva kwiiklinikhi, iingcali zezocansi, oogqirha kunye nabantu abajongene nokuziphatha ngokunyanisekileyo kwezesondo kukuba ngaphezu kwe-80% yemicimbi ehlobene nezocwangco." I-Foundation Foundation beqhuba iindibano zocweyo kunye nabasebenzi bezempilo kwi-UK kwaye bafumanisa ukuba oogqirha kunye nabasemasimini abazange bacinge ukuba babuze izigulane zabo zesigulane esine-ED malunga nokusetyenziswa kwabo koonografi. "Banika iViagra kwaye ayisebenzisele ezininzi," utsho uSharpe. "Akunxulumani neengxaki."

Xa izidakamizwa zingasebenzi, u-Sharpe uvile ngamadoda amancinci athola iimpenile (i-prosthetics efakwe kwi-penis ukunceda ukunyusa). "Omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba bezonyango kwenye yeeworkshops zonyaka odlulileyo wathi isiguli sasinezimbini ezinjalo." Akukho mntu wacinga ukumbuza malunga nokusetyenziswa koonografi.

Uhambo olutshanje lwakutshanje, u-Sharpe uyakhumbula, inkwenkwana wambuza ukuba zingaphi kangangeentsuku ngosuku ukuhlaziya i-pornastry kunezoninzi. "Basebenzisa lonke ixesha," kusho uSharpe, "kwaye akukho mntu ubatsho ukuba yingxaki."

Ngomhla wama-24 kuFebruwari 2019. UMary Sharpe unikezele ngezimvo zakhe kumaphepha-ndaba ngeli tyala lilusizi kakhulu kwiinkundla zaseScotland. Sothuse isizwe. Eli bali likwafumaneka kwiCawe yeposi njenge “"