Isikhokelo soMzali saSimahla kwi-Intanethi

Isikhokelo sabazali saSimahla kwi-Intanethi ye-Intanethi ye-ponografi-Ukuhlaziywa kwesifo

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Isiqulatho

Ukugula

Ushwankathelo lweengozi zeManyala

Ubuntongo Ubuncinane

I-Autism Spectrum Disways

Iividiyo ezimfutshane zokukhusela abantwana

Idokhumenti eNtsha yaBafundi yaBazali malunga neZiphumo ze-Porn kuBantwana

Ncedisa kwezo zincoko zinzima

Iingcebiso eziphambili zokuthetha nabantwana

Iingcebiso eziphezulu malunga nee-smartphones

Ukuqinisekiswa kwe-Smartphone

Yintoni enokunceda?

Iincwadi ezikhuthaziweyo

Ubunjani bakho kwiSigonyo

Misela kwakhona ubuchopho bomntwana wakho

Iincwadi zaBantwana abancinci

Izibonelelo zasimahla kwi-Intanethi zabazali

Ukuvuselelwa kwewebhu yabasebenzisi abancinci

Izixhobo zokubuyisa ezisekwe kwinkolo

Imiba yoMthetho

Ukungenelela kaRhulumente

Inkxaso engakumbi evela kwi-Foundation Reward Foundation

Ngaphambi kokuba siqale kolu hlolo malunga nemingcipheko ye-porn, masikhumbule ukuba kutheni kubalulekile. Sifuna abantwana bakhule babe nolwalamano olonwabileyo, olunothando nolukhuselekileyo. Bukela oku ividiyo enomtsalane, "Yintoni uthando?" ukusikhumbuza ukuba ijongeka kanjani xa usenza

Njengabazali kunye nabanonopheli babantwana yeyona mizekelo ibalulekileyo kunye nomthombo wesikhokelo kubantwana bakho. Kude kube kubudala be-18, ubuncinci, unoxanduva lokuphila kakuhle. Esi sikhokelo sabazali kwimifanekiso engamanyala kwi-intanethi siyakukunceda uzithembe ngokwaneleyo ukuze ube nezo ngxoxo zinzima. Funda malunga nefuthe lezempilo ye-porn, ifuthe lomzimba, kunye neziphumo ezibonisa amanyala. Olu lwazi luya kukuvumela ukuba ukhusele abantwana bakho kuluhlu lwezinto ezibi eziye zachongwa ziingcali zezempilo kunye namawaka wabasebenzisi bangaphambili. Sifaka icandelo lokuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni kunye nefuthe elisemthethweni kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

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Ukugula

Ngexesha lobhubhane, isithukuthezi siza kuvumela abantwana abangakumbi ngengozi okanye uyilo, ukuba bahlangane nonikezelo olungenasiphelo lwe-hardcore pornography. Ngaphandle kokuba uzifundise, emva koko nabantwana bakho, malunga neziphumo ezinokubakho kwimpilo yengqondo neyomzimba, kukho imingcipheko yomntwana wakho ekuphuhliseni iingxaki ezinxulumene ne-porn kwixa elizayo. Uxolo ukungabi nayo, kodwa oku kukujonga okwenyani. Ulutsha lolona lusemngciphekweni omkhulu wokukhula kwengxaki zempilo yengqondo kunye neziyobisi ngokuhamba kwexesha. Nantsi into elungileyo vidiyo ngugqirha wengqondo okhathazekileyo othetha ngokujamelana nobhubhane.

Ushwankathelo lweengozi zeManyala

Umkhwa wokujonga iphonografi unokubangela iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zilandelayo:

Isolation Social
  • ukurhoxa kwimicimbi yezentlalo
  • ukuphuhlisa ubomi bemfihlo
  • ukuxoka nokukhohlisa abanye
  • Ukuzicingela iziqu zakho
  • Ukukhetha i-porn ngaphezu kwabantu
Izifo zoMoya
  • ndiziva ndicaphukile xa ndingakwazi ukufikelela kwi-porn
  • Uziva unomsindo kwaye unxunguphele
  • Ukuhlangabezana nokutshintsha kwemozulu
  • uxinzelelo olugcweleyo kunye nokoyika
  • Ukuziva ungenamandla ngokunxulumene ne-porn
Ukwabelana ngesondo nabanye abantu
  • ukuphatha abantu njengezinto zesondo
  • ukugweba abantu ngokuyintloko ngokwamalungu emizimba yabo
  • Ukuhlangabezana nokutshintsha kwemozulu
  • Ukungazihloniphi iimfuno zabanye abantu zangasese kunye nezokhuseleko
  • Ukungakhathali malunga nokuziphatha okuyingozi ngokwesondo
Ukuzibandakanya ekuziphatheni okuyingozi kunye nokuziphatha okuyingozi
  • ukufikelela kwi-porn emsebenzini okanye esikolweni
  • ukufikelela kwimifanekiso yokuphathwa gadalala kwabantwana
  • nenxaxheba ekuhlaziseni, ekuhlukumezeni, kubundlobongela, okanye kulwaphulo mthetho ngokwesondo
  • ukuvelisa, ukusasaza okanye ukuthengisa imifanekiso engamanyala
  • ukuzibandakanya kwezesondo ngendlela engakhuselekanga neyenzakalisayo
Iqabane elingonwabanga
  • ubudlelwane bonakaliswa kukunganyaniseki kunye nenkohliso malunga nokusebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala
  • Iqabane lijonga iphonografi njengokungathembeki, okt.
  • Iqabane liyanda kwaye linomsindo
  • ubudlelwane buyehla ngenxa yokungathembani nentlonipho
  • Iqabane lixhalabele intlalo-ntle yabantwana
  • iqabane livakalelwa kukuba alifanelekanga ngokwesondo kwaye lisongelwa yi-porn
  • Ukuphulukana ngokusondeleyo ngokweemvakalelo kunye nokuzonwabisa okwabelana ngesondo
Iingxaki zesondo
  • Ukuphulukana komdla wesini kunye neqabane lokwenene
  • ubunzima bokuvuka kunye / okanye ukufezekisa i-orgasm ngaphandle kwe-porn
  • iingcinga ezingathandekiyo, iifoto, kunye nemifanekiso ye-porn ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo
  • ukufuna ngokwesondo kunye nokuba rhabaxa ngokwesini
  • ukuba nobunzima bokudibanisa uthando nokukhathalela ngesondo
  • Ukuziva ulwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kolawulo kunye nokunyanzelwa
  • ukunyusa inzala kumngcipheko, ukonakalisa, ukuxhaphaza, kunye / okanye ngokwesondo
  • ukungoneliseki okukhulayo ngesondo
  • Dysfunctions ngokwesondo-ukungakwazi ukuba semnyameni, ukumiliselwa komzimba, ukungasebenzi kakuhle komzimba
Ukuzicekisa
  • Ukuziva unqamleze kumaxabiso abantu, iinkolelo kunye neenjongo
  • Ukuphulukana nengqibelelo yobuqu
  • ukuzithemba okuqinisekileyo
  • iimvakalelo ezingapheliyo zokuziva unetyala kunye nehlazo
  • iimvakalelo zilawulwa yi-porn
Ukungahoyi iinkalo ezibalulekileyo zobomi
  • Impilo yakho (ukuthoba ubuthongo, ukudinwa, kunye nokuzikhathalela)
  • Ubomi bosapho (ukungahoyi iqabane, abantwana, izilwanyana zasekhaya kunye noxanduva lwasekhaya)
  • imisebenzi nezinto ezenziwa esikolweni (kuncitshiswe kugxilwe, ukuvelisa, kunye nenkqubela phambili)
  • iimali (inkcitho kwizinto ezibonisa amanyala)
  • ubumoya (ukwahlukaniswa nokholo kunye nezinto zokomoya)
Iziyobisi
  • Ukufuna i-porn kakhulu kwaye ngokuqhubekayo
  • ubunzima ukulawula iingcinga, okanye ukuboniswa, kunye nokusebenzisa imifanekiso engamanyala
  • ukungakwazi ukuyeka ukusetyenziswa kwe-porn ngaphandle kweziphumo ezibi
  • ukusilela okuphindaphindiweyo ukuyeka ukusebenzisa i-porn
  • Ukufuna umxholo ogqithisileyo okanye ukubhengeza okukhulu kwi-porn ukufumana isiphumo esifanayo (iimpawu zokuhlala)
  • Ukufumana ukungonwabisi kunye nokungakhathali xa uncitshiswe i-porn (iimpawu zokurhoxa)

Olu luhlu lungasentla luhlengahlengiswe kwincwadi "I-Trap Trap”NguWendy Malz. Ngelixa uninzi lwezi zinxulumene nolutsha oludala kunye nabantu abadala abancinci, ezinye zinamava abantwana nazo.

Ubuntongo Ubuncinane

kumnandi, ingqondo yeplastiki yokufikisa

Malunga nokufikisa, abantwana baqala ukuba nomdla ngakumbi ngesondo kwaye bafuna ukufunda kangangoko. Ngoba? Kungenxa yokuba eyona nto iphambili kwindalo kukuvelisa ngokwesondo, ukugqithisa kwimfuza. Kwaye siyilwe ukuba sigxile kuyo, silungile okanye akunjalo. I-intanethi yindawo yokuqala abantwana abaqala ukukhangela iimpendulo.

Ukufikelela simahla, ukusasazwa, iphonografi yeentengiso zesondo yenye yezona zilingo zikhulu, ezingalawulelwanga kwezentlalo ezakha zafunyanwa embalini. Yongeza uluhlu olutsha lonke lweendlela zokuziphatha eziyingozi kwingqondo esele ifuna ingozi. Bona le vidiyo imfutshane ukuze uqonde ngakumbi malunga ingqondo yobutsha ngengcebiso yabazali evela kwingcali ye-neurosologist.

Abafana bathanda ukusebenzisa iisayithi ze-porn ngakumbi kunamantombazana, kwaye amantombazana akhetha indawo zentlalo yoluntu kwaye anomdla ngakumbi kumabali angama-erotic, anjenge-50 Shades of Grey. Lo mngcipheko owahlukileyo kumantombazana. Umzekelo, sivile malunga nentombazana eneminyaka eli-9 ubudala eyayikhutshileyo kwaye yafunda ingxelo engamanyala kwi-Kindle yayo. Oku kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuba umama wakhe wafaka izithintelo kunye nolawulo kuzo zonke ezinye izixhobo angena kuzo, kodwa engabinalo uhlobo.

Ulutsha oluninzi luthi banqwenela ukuba abazali babo bangasebenza ngakumbi ekuxoxeni nabo ngemifanekiso engamanyala. Ukuba abanakukucela uncedo, bazokuya phi?

Eyona ndawo yewebhu ikhulu neyaziwa kakhulu I-Pornhub ikhuthaza iividiyo ezivelisa unxunguphalo ezinjengokubulala iphonografi, ukukrexeza, ukungcungcutheka, ukudlwengula kunye neqela lemigulukudu. Isinqe yenye yezona ntlobo zikhula ngokukhawuleza ngokutsho I-PornhubIingxelo ezizezakho. Uninzi lwayo lusimahla kwaye lufikeleleka lula. I-Pornhub ibona ubhubhane njengethuba elihle lokuxhoma abasebenzisi abaninzi kwaye banikezela ukufikelela simahla kwiziza zabo zepremiyamu (zihlala zihlawulwa) kuwo onke amazwe.

I-Autism Spectrum Disways

Ukuba unomntwana oye wavavanywa njengakwisimo sengqondo se-autism, kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba umntwana wakho unokuba semngciphekweni omkhulu wokubambeka kwimifanekiso engamanyala kunakwabantwana abane-neurotypical. Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho angabonakala kumboniso, ingangumbono olungileyo ukuba nabo vavanywa ukuba kuyenzeka. Amadoda aselula ngokukodwa ane-ASD okanye iimfuno zemfundo ezizodwa amelwe ngokungachanekanga kwiinkcukacha-manani zokona ngokwesondo. Ichaphazela okungenani Abantu abayi-1-2% Inani labemi ngokubanzi, ayaziwa, ukubakho kwayo kwaye ayaziwa Iipesenti ezingama-30 zaboni bakwi-spectrum okanye banobunzima bokufunda. Nantsi iphepha elitsha malunga namava omnye umfana. Nxibelelana nathi ukufikelela kwiphepha ukuba kuyafuneka.

Ukuphazamiseka kwembonakalo ye-Autism yimeko ye-neurological ekhoyo kwasekuzalweni. Ayisiyo ngxaki yempilo yengqondo. Ngelixa yimeko exhaphake kakhulu phakathi kwamadoda, 5: 1, abantu basetyhini banayo nayo. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya funda ezi bhlog i-porn kunye ne-autism; ibali likamama; yaye autism: yangempela okanye inkohliso?

Iividiyo ezimfutshane zokukhusela abantwana

Ukuphepha umngxunya we-porn

Lo mzuzu we-2, uqaqambile oopopayi inika ukujonga okukhawulezileyo kwaye ixhasa isidingo esingxamisekileyo sokuphunyezwa kwemithetho yokuqinisekisa ubudala ukukhusela abantwana. Unokulubonisa nakubantwana bakho njengoko ingenayo iphonografi.

Le 5-umzuzu yokuzonwabisa sisicatshulwa esivela kuxwebhu oluvela eNew Zealand. Kuyo ugqirha wemithambo-luvo ucacisa ukuba injani na imo yobukrelekrele kujongeka njengengqondo kwaye ubonise ukuba kufana kangakanani nokubakho kumkhwa wecocaine.

Kule ntetho yeTEDx "Isini, amanyala kunye nobudoda", UNjingalwazi uWarren Binford, ethetha njengomama notitshala ochaphazelekayo, unika umbono ocacileyo wokuba iphonografi ibachaphazela njani abantwana. Le ntetho yeTEDx nguNjingalwazi Gail Dines “Ukukhula kwinkcubeko engamanyala”(Imizuzu eli-13) icacisa gca ukuba iividiyo zomculo, iisayithi ezingamanyala kunye namajelo eendaba ezentlalo zibumba njani ubundlobongela babantwana bethu namhlanje.

Nantsi intetho ehlekisayo yeTEDx (imizuzu eyi-16) ebizwa ngokuba "Njani Iimvakalelo Ezithandwayo Zithandana Ngokwezesondo”Ngumama waseMelika kunye nomhlohli wesini UCindy Pierce.  Isikhokelo sabazali bakhe sithi kutheni izingxoxo eziqhubekayo nabantwana bakho malunga ne-porn ziyimfuneko kwaye yintoni enomdla wabo. Jonga apha ngezantsi ngezixhobo ezininzi malunga nendlela yokwenza ezo ncoko.

Abantwana abancinci njengabathandathu bafumana imifanekiso yamanyala. Abanye abantwana banomdla kwaye bafuna kakhulu, abanye bayenzakala kwaye banobusuku obumnandi. Izixhobo ezilukhuni zabantu abadala azilungelanga abantwana bayo nayiphi na iminyaka ngenxa yenqanaba lokukhula kwengqondo. Nantsi umbiko yahlaziywa ngo-2017 ibizwa ngokuba “… bendingazi ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo ukubukela…” uvavanyo olusemgangathweni noluninzi lwempembelelo yamanyala kwi-intanethi kwiinqobo ezisemgangathweni, izimo zengqondo, iinkolelo kunye nokuziphatha kwabantwana nolutsha. ” Yayithunywe kwiYunivesithi yaseMiddlesex yi-NSPCC kunye noMkomishinala waBantwana waseNgilani naseWales.

Yazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuzilawula kulutsha. Le yeyona ntetho ibalaseleyo yeTEDx ebizwa Ubushushu beXeshana: Iziphumo zokuVuswa kwesondo ekuthatheni izigqibo ngokwesondo.

Idokhumenti eNtsha yaBafundi yaBazali malunga neZiphumo ze-Porn kuBantwana

Sicebisa ngokupheleleyo ukuba ubukele le vidiyo intsha. Unga jonga i-trailer yasimahla kwiVimeo. Luxwebhu olwenziwe ngabazali, abathi baba ngabenzi beefilimu, ngabazali. Olona luvo luphambili lomba esilubonileyo kwaye inemizekelo emihle yendlela yokuba neengxoxo ezinobuqili nabantwana bakho.

Ukujonga isiseko sevidiyo kubiza kuphela i- $ 4.99 kwaye yeyona mali ichithwe ngeyona ndlela unokuyithemba. (Asifumani mali ngale ngcebiso.) Uninzi lweengcali kunye nezixhobo esizicebisayo kwesi sikhokelo sabazali ziyavela kuxwebhu. URob noZareen babeka yonke imali kunye nobuchule ekwenzeni oku njengenkonzo kwabanye abazali, ke nceda uyithenge ukuba unako. Enkosi. Ukuba awufuni kuchitha nayiphi na imali, zikhona ezinye iividiyo ezigqwesileyo ezingezantsi ezifumaneka simahla.

Iphonografi, amarhamncwa kunye nendlela yokugcina ikhuselekile

Iingcebiso eziphambili zokuthetha nabantwana

  1.  “Ungasoli kwaye ube neentloni” umntwana ngokubukela iphonografi. Kuyo yonke indawo ekwi-Intanethi, kuvela amajelo osasazo kwanevidiyo yomculo. Kunokuba nzima ukukuphepha. Abanye abantwana bayayidlulisa ngenxa yohleko okanye iBravado, okanye umntwana wakho angakhubeka kuyo. Basenokuba ngokuqinisekileyo bayifuna ngamandla. Ukuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba angayiboni kuphela kuyenza ukuba ihende ngakumbi, kuba njengoko eli lidala lisitsho, 'isiqhamo esinqatshelwe sisithandwa kakhulu'
  2. Gcina imigca uqhagamshelwano oluvulekileyo ukwenzela ukuba uyisango lokuqala lokufowunela ukuxoxisana ngemiba ecaleni lezonxeba. Abantwana ngokwemvelo bafuna ukwazi ngesondo ukususela kumncinane. I-porn e-intanethi ibonakala njengendlela epholileyo yokufunda indlela yokuziphatha kakuhle ngesondo. Vula kwaye uthembeke ngeemvakalelo zakho malunga nezoconsonografi. Khawucinge ngokuthetha ngokubhenela koononophala njengomntu omncinci, nangona uvakalelwa.
  3. Abantwana abayidingi intetho enye enkulu malunga nezesondo. Bona zidinga iingxoxo ezininzi ekuhambeni kwexesha njengoko behamba kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka abe neminyaka efanelekileyo, cela uncedo ukuba uyayifuna. Ootata noomama Zombini kufuneka zidlale indima ekuzifundiseni ngokwazo kunye nabantwana bazo malunga nefuthe lobugcisa banamhlanje.

Ncedisa kwezo zincoko zinzima

  1. Owayesakuba ngunjingalwazi kwezentlalo, umbhali kunye nomama, uGqr Gail Dines, ngumseki weNkcubeko eVuselelwe. Yibone intetho yakhe yeTEDx "Ukukhula kwinkcubeko engamanyala”(13 imiz). Yena neqela lakhe baphuhlise izixhobo ezikhululekileyo nezilungileyo eziza kunceda abazali bakhulise abantwana abakwaziyo ukumelana ne-porn. Ungayenza njani incoko: jonga i INkcubeko inqatshelwe Inkqubo yabazali. 
  2. Le yincwadi entsha ebhalwe nguColette Smart, umama, owayesakuba ngutitshala kunye nengcali yezengqondo ebizwa ngokuba “Baza Kulunga". Incwadi inemizekelo eli-15 yeencoko onokuthi ube nazo nabantwana bakho. Lewebhusayithi ikwanodliwanondlebe kunye nomlobi ekwabelana nabanye ngezimvo eziphambili.
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Iingcebiso eziphezulu malunga nee-smartphones

  1. Ukulibala ukunika umntwana wakho i-smartphone okanye ithebhulethi ixesha elide kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Iifowuni eziphathwayo zithetha ukuba ungahlala unxibelelana. Ngelixa kunokubonakala ngathi ngumvuzo wokusebenza nzima kwisikolo samabanga aphantsi okanye kumabanga aphantsi ukubonisa umntwana wakho nge-smartphone xa engena kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo, jonga into eyenzayo ekuphumeleleni kwabo kwezifundo kwiinyanga ezilandelayo. Ngaba abantwana bayayidinga ukufikelela kwi-24 yeyure ngosuku kwi-intanethi? Ngelixa abantwana banokufumana imisebenzi emininzi yasekhaya ekwi-Intanethi, ngaba ukusetyenziswa kokuzonwabisa kungathintelwa kwimizuzu engama-60 ngosuku, nanjengokulinga? Nazi usetyenziso lweWindows kwi- Ivenkile yeWindows ukubeka iliso ekusetyenzisweni kweintanethi ngokukodwa ngeenjongo zokuzonwabisa. Abantwana be-2 iminyaka nangaphantsi akufuneki basebenzise izikrini konke konke.
  2. Vala intanethi ebusuku. Okanye, ubuncinci, Susa zonke iifowuni, iitafile kunye nezixhobo zemidlalo kwigumbi lokulala lomntwana wakho. Ukungabikho kokulala okubuyisayo kukonyusa uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo kubantwana abaninzi namhlanje. Bafuna ukulala ubusuku bonke, iiyure ezisibhozo ubuncinci, ukubanceda badibanise ukufunda kwemini, babancede bakhule, baqonde iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bazive bephilile.
  3. Vumela abantwana bakho bazi ukuba Iphonografi yenzelwe i-dollar yezigidigidi nkampani ukuba "hook" abasebenzisi ngaphandle kokwazi kwabo ukwenza imikhwa ebenza ukuba babuyele ngakumbi. Konke malunga nokugcina ingqalelo yabo. Iinkampani zithengisa kwaye zabelane ngolwazi olusondeleyo malunga neminqweno kunye nemikhwa yomsebenzisi kubantu besithathu nakubathengisi. Yenziwe ukuba ibe likhoboka lomdlalo we-Intanethi, ukugembula kunye nemithombo yeendaba zentlalo ukugcina abasebenzisi bebuya ngakumbi ngokukhawuleza xa bedikiwe okanye bexhalabile.

Ukuqinisekiswa kwe-Smartphone

  1. Ukujongana nemibhikisho: Abantwana banokuqhankqalaza ekuqaleni, kodwa abantwana abaninzi basixelele ukuba bangathanda ukuba abazali babo babanyanzelise ixesha lokubuyela ekhaya kwaye babanike imida ecacileyo. Awumenzeli umntwana wakho naziphi na izinto ezilungileyo ngokushiya 'ngokoqobo' kwizixhobo zabo.
  2. Sukuziva unetyala ngenxa yokuthatha isenzo esithintekayo nabantwana bakho. Impilo yabo yengqondo kunye nokuphila zikhulu kakhulu ezandleni zenu. Zibophe ngolwazi kunye nentliziyo evulekileyo yokunceda umntwana wakho ahambe kule nkqubo enzima yophuhliso. Nantsi cebiso evela kumntwana wengqondo.
  3. yakutshanje uphando icebisa ukuba amacebo okucoca wedwa akanakubakhusela abantwana bakho ekufikeleleni kwi-intanethi. Esi sikhokelo sabazali sigxininisa isidingo sokugcina iindlela zonxibelelwano zivulekile njengezona zibaluleke ngakumbi. Ukwenza i-porn kube nzima ukufikelela kuyo kodwa ihlala sisiqalo esihle ngakumbi kubantwana abancinci. Kufanelekile ukubeka Iifayile kuzo zonke izixhobo zeintanethi kwaye Khangela kwi qho ngamaxesha ukuba bayasebenza. Jonga kwi-Childline okanye umboneleli wakho we-intanethi malunga neengcebiso zamva nje malunga nokucoca.

Yintoni enokunceda?

  1. Zininzi isoftware kunye nenketho zenkxaso. Ikydz Ngaba iapp ivumela abazali ukuba babeke iliso ekusetyenzisweni kwabantwana babo. Igalari Guardian yazisa abazali xa kuvela umfanekiso okrokrisayo kwisixhobo somntwana wabo. Ijongene nemingcipheko ejikeleze ukuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni.
  2. umzuzu yi app free evumela umntu ukuba abeke iliso ekusebenziseni kwakhe kwi-intanethi, ukuseta umda kunye nokufumana izikhalazo xa efikelela kuloo mida. Abasebenzisi banotyekelo lokujongela phantsi ukusetyenziswa kwabo ngumda obalulekileyo. Le app iyafana kodwa ayikhululekanga. Inceda abantu baqalise iingqondo zabo ngoncedo apha endleleni. Kuyabizwa Brainbuddy.
  3. Nazi ezinye iinkqubo ezinokuba luncedo: Amehlo Omnqophiso; Bark; NetNanny; Ukuthatha inxaxheba; Ulawulo lwabazali eQustodio; WebWatcher; INkulumbuso yaseNorton yoSapho; I-OpenDNS iVIP yasekhaya; I-PureSight Multi. Ukuvela kweenkqubo kolu luhlu akubonisi ukuvunywa yiSiseko soMvuzo. Asifumani sibonelelo semali kwintengiso yeziapps.
Ubunjani bakho kwi-Porn cover

Ubunjani bakho kwiSigonyo

Incwadi ebalaseleyo kwintengiso ligosa lethu lophando elibekekileyo uGary Wilson. Singayithetha loo nto, kodwa kuyenzeka kuyinyani. Ibizwa ngokubaUbuchopho Bakho kwi-Porn: Iimifanekiso zoononopasho ze-Intanethi kunye neSayensi eVukayo yoLungiso”. Isikhokelo sabazali esihle. Nika abantwana bakho ukuba bafunde njengoko inamakhulu amabali ngabanye abantu abancinci kunye nemizabalazo yabo yokujonga iphonografi. Uninzi lwaqala ukubukela iphonografi kwi-intanethi besebancinci.

UGary ngutitshala ogqwesileyo wesayensi ochaza umvuzo wobuchopho, okanye inkuthazo, inkqubo ngendlela efikeleleka kakhulu kwabo bengengabo abenzululwazi. Incwadi yihlaziyo kwisithandwa sakhe TEDx intetho evela kwi2012.

Incwadi iyafumaneka kwiphepha elibhaliweyo, ku-Kindle okanye kwincwadi yeaudiyo. Ngapha koko inguqulelo yeaudio iyafumaneka SIMAHLA e-UK Apha, Nabantu base-USA, Apha. Ihlaziyiwe ngo-Okthobha u-2018 ukuze ithathe ingqalelo yokwamkelwa kwecandelo elitsha lokuqonda isifo loMbutho wezeMpilo weHlabathi.Isiphazamiso sokuziphatha okubi ngokwesondo okunyanzelekileyo". Iinguqulelo ziyafumaneka ngesiDatshi, isiArabhu nangesiHungary ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, kunye nabanye abakwipayipi.

Misela kwakhona ubuchopho bomntwana wakho

Incwadi yengqondo yomntwana uDkt Victoria Dunckley ethi "Yenza kwakhona Ubunzima Bantwana bakho"Kwaye ikhululekile blog Chaza iimpembelelo zexesha elininzi kakhulu lesikrini kwingqondo yomntwana. Ngokubalulekileyo icwangcisa isicwangciso sokuba abazali banokwenza ntoni ukunceda umntwana wabo abuyele emgceni kwakhona.

UGqr Dunckley akahlukanisi nokusetyenziswa kwe-porn kodwa ujolise ekusebenziseni i-intanethi ngokubanzi. Uthi malunga neepesenti ezingama-80 zabantwana azibonayo azinazo iingxaki zempilo yengqondo abaye bafumanisa ukuba banazo kwaye banikwa amayeza, njenge-ADHD, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo njl.njl. ' Esi sifo silingisa iimpawu ezininzi zezi ngxaki zempilo yengqondo. Imicimbi yezempilo yengqondo ihlala inyangeka / incitshiswe ngokususa izixhobo ze-elektroniki kangangesithuba seeveki ezi-3 kwimeko ezininzi, abanye abantwana badinga ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba baqhubeke nokusetyenziswa kodwa kwinqanaba elilinganiselweyo.

Incwadi yakhe ikwachaza indlela abazali abanokukwenza ngayo oku kwisikhokelo samanyathelo ngamanyathelo ngokubambisana nesikolo somntwana ukuqinisekisa intsebenziswano efanelekileyo kumacala amabini.

Iincwadi Kwabantwana Abancinane

Ibhokisi lePandora livulekile. Ngoku ndiyenza ntoni? " UGail Poyner unengqondo yeengqondo kwaye unikeza ulwazi oluncedo lobuchopho kunye nokuqeqeshwa okulula ukubanceda abantwana bacinge ngeendlela.

"Imifanekiso emihle, imifanekiso emibi"NguKristen Jensen noGail Poyner. Kwakhona incwadi enhle egxile kwingqondo yengqondo.

Akunabantwana. Ukukhusela abantwana. ULiz Walker ubhale incwadi elula kubantwana abancinci abanemifanekiso emibalabala.

Imfihlo yeHamish kunye noMfihlo. Le yincwadi entsha ebhalwe nguLiz Walker yabantwana abaneminyaka engama-8 ukuya kweli-12.

Izibonelelo zasimahla kwi-Intanethi zabazali

  1. Funda ngo impilo, kwezomthetho, zemfundo kwaye ulwalamano iimpembelelo zokusebenzisa iphonografi kwi I-Foundation Foundation iwebhusayithi kunye neengcebiso malunga ukuyeka.
  2. Jonga indlela INkcubeko inqatshelwe Inkqubo yabazali kunceda abazali ukuba bajongane notshintsho lwangoku lwenkcubeko kunye nefuthe labo ebantwaneni.
  3. Ukuqonda ukuba kunganzima kangakanani ukwenza umthambo Ukuzibamba. Ukuhlekisa ngevidiyo ngugqirha wezengqondo ophezulu.
  4. Ukuthintela indlela yokuziphatha ngokwesini zixhobo ukusuka kwiLucy Faithfull Foundation.
  5. Isiluleko esilungileyo esiluncedo kwi-charity anti-child's charity Stop It Now! Abazali baKhusele
  6. Lwela isiyobisi esitsha Ungathetha njani nabantwana bakho malunga ne-porn. 
  7. Nantsi into ebalulekileyo umbiko ku Imiba ye-Intanethi ukhuseleko lwe-intanethi kunye ne-digital piracy kunye neengcebiso malunga nendlela yokugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekileyo xa ekhwela umnatha.
  8. Iseluleko evela I-NSPCC malunga ne-intanethi ye-intanethi.

Ukuvuselelwa kwewebhu yabasebenzisi abancinci

Uninzi lweewebhu ezikhululekile zokubuyisela iinjengewe yourbrainonporn.com; RebootNation.org; PornHelpNoFap.com; Fightenewdrug.org;  Hamba Ubukhulu kwaye Umlutha we-Internet Porn Ngabantu abasebenza ngokwenkolo kodwa nabasebenzisi benkolo. Iluncedo kubazali ukujonga ukufumana uluvo lwento abo baphinde bafumana kwaye ngoku bajongana nayo njengoko belungelelanisa.

Izibonelelo ezinokholo

Kukho izixhobo ezintle ezifumanekayo nakumaziko asekelwe kwikolo njengaye  Ukuthembeka okubuyiswe kumaKatolika, ngamaKristu ngokubanzi Iprojekthi yeNak yeNyaniso (UK) Njani AmaThupha Ahlawulayo (E-US), kunye MuslimMatters abo bokholo lwamaSilamsi. Nceda unxibelelane nathi ukuba kukho ezinye iiprojekthi ezisekela ukholo esinokuthi sizityikitye.

Ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwe-intanethi ye-intanethi ngabantwana abumba ingqondo yomntwana, itemplate yabo yokuvuselela ngokwesondo. Inefuthe elikhulu ekuthumeleni imiyalezo kunye nokuthumelana nge-intanethi. Okukhona abantwana bebukela iphonografi elikhuni, kokukhona bafuna amanqanaba aphezulu kunye aphezulu okuvusa isondo. Kungenxa yokuba ubuchopho buhlala kwaye buyekiswa kumanqanaba asezantsi okukhuthaza. Ixesha elingaphezulu oku kunokukhokelela kwingxaki yengqondo nengqondo kwaye kungabikho mpendulo yolonwabo kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Inkxalabo enkulu kubazali kufuneka ibe ziziphumo ezinokubakho kwezomthetho. Jonga apha ngolwazi oluphambili malunga nokuthumela imiyalezo ngefowuni, ukuziphindezela kwi-porn, njl.njl. Ukuthumela iifoto eScotland. Ukuthumela imiyalezo ngaphakathi INgilane, Wales kunye ne-Northern Ireland.

Jonga isibonelelo esichasayo sokuziphatha kakubi ngokwesondo esichasene nomntwana uLucy Faithfull Foundation zixhobo ejolise kubazali, abanonopheli, amalungu osapho kunye neengcali. ISiseko soMvuzo sikhankanywe njengomthombo woncedo.

E-UK, amapolisa ayacelwa ngumthetho ukuba aqaphele naziphi na izehlo zokuthumela imiyalezo yemifanekiso engathandabuzekiyo kwinkqubo yeMbali yamaPolisa. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubanjwe enemifanekiso engamanyala kwaye ebenyanzelisa ukuyifumana okanye eyidlulisela kwabanye, angabekwa ityala ngamapolisa. Ngenxa yokuba ulwaphulo-mthetho ngokwesondo luthathelwa ingqalelo kakhulu ngamapolisa, loo nto iphosakeleyo, irekhodwe kwinkqubo yezembali yamapolisa, iya kugqithiselwa kulowo uza kuba ngumqeshi xa kucelwa itshekhi ephuculweyo yokusebenza nabantu abasesichengeni. Oku kubandakanya umsebenzi wokuzithandela.

Ukuthumelelana imiyalezo nemifanekiso yamanyala ngefowuni kungabonakala kuyindlela engenabungozi yokudlala ngothando, kodwa ukuba kuyabukrakra okanye kuyanyanzelwa, ifuthe linokuba nefuthe elibi kwithuba elide kumathuba omsebenzi omntwana wakho. Imifanekiso engamanyala rhoqo isebenzisa iimodeli zokunyanzelwa.

Ukungenelela kaRhulumente

Urhulumente wase-UK ukuhlehlisile (ukungarhoxiswa) ukuzibophelela kwakhe ekukhuseleni abantwana kwi-intanethi. Bona oku Ileta evela kubaphathiswa bakarhulumente kuNobhala woMdibaniso waBantwana waBantu malunga noKhuseleko lwe-Intanethi.

Injongo yomthetho wokuqinisekisa ubudala (Umthetho woQoqosho lweDijithali, iCandelo lesi-3) yayikukwenza iinkampani ezingamanyala ezentengiso ukuba zifakele isoftware esebenzayo yokuqinisekisa ubudala ukuthintela ukufikelela kwabo baneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18 kwiiwebhusayithi zorhwebo. Bona oku blog ngayo malunga neenkcukacha. Imigaqo emitsha ifuna ukubandakanya iisayithi zeendaba zentlalo kunye newebhusayithi zentengiso zamanyala.

Inkxaso engakumbi evela kwi-Foundation Reward Foundation

Nceda uqhagamshelane nathi ukuba kukho nayiphi na indawo ongathanda ukuyifaka kulo mbandela. Siza kuphuhlisa izinto ezininzi kwiwebsite yethu kwiinyanga ezizayo. Bhalisela kwi-newsletter ye-e-newsletter Iindaba ezibuyiselwayo (ngeenyawo zephepha) uze usilandele kwi-Twitter (@brain_love_sex) malunga neentuthuko zakutsha nje.

Isikhokelo sabazali sagqityelwa ukuhlaziywa ngo-17 Novemba 2020

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